my exgirlfriend who i'm stiil in love with wants to be friends. i do too but it hurts to talk to her. well no to talk her i actually enjoy conversating with her. but its after we get off the phone i feel empty and alone again. then on the other hand if i dont talk to her i really feel alone. and to top it all off we work together and have to see each other 4 days a week
2006-07-07 01:55:39 · 9 answers · asked by jay d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her how you really feel and see if she feels the same. If you sit her down and give your true inner feelings and emotions, i am sure she mite feel the same.Make it special!
2006-07-07 01:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by 2cute2turnaway07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you only want to be friends with her because you're hoping it will lead to you two being back together again? You should only be friends with her only if that is what you truly want. If you think friendship is not enough, I wouldn't have any kind of relationship with her. Just gradually taper off the relationship. Friendship doesn't work if one is secretly in love with the other, it's just too difficult. It's a good sign if an ex-girlfriend still wants to be friends with you, it means that she still admires you as a person. Are you sure she's still not attracted to you? To see if she's still into you, why don't you try flirting with another girl or go out with another girl and see how she reacts. If she becomes jealous, then there's hope for you. This just may remind her what a great guy you are and make her realize the mistake she's made.
2006-07-07 02:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing here man.. On the one hand being just friends is not satisfying, but on the other hand you don't want to loose her. If you don't see her, you miss her. If you do see her it hurts even more to see what you're missing and what could have been so perfect.. Well its hard, if you try being friends who knows what might happen in the future, but don't have high expectations.. How frustrating it may be, sometimes you just have to accept that what isnt, just isnt..
2006-07-07 02:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by III 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is your ex- that means she is seeing someone else. So you need to find you another fish or lure her from being the ex to your current. Work on all the complaints she had will she was your current before she became an ex.
2006-07-07 02:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by jay g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should still stay friends with her and you should also ask her how she is feeling. You might both feel the same way.
Who knows if you can prove to her that you are a good friend you might both get back together.
2006-07-07 02:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend and thats good that you guys are still something after you guys broke up it is hard at first but you know that love you have for her is always going to be in your heart
2006-07-07 02:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by lola :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the magic word - LOVE
2006-07-07 01:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never works.
2006-07-07 01:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by Leprechaun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand what are you trying to say
2006-07-07 01:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋