I am 19 years old and i have been trying for 7 months to get a girlfriend but all have turned me down in a bad way.
2006-07-07 01:00:53 · 16 answers · asked by ARTHUR M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
myspace will help
2006-07-07 01:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by DivaStar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) check your self. MAYBE THEREs SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU? Be honest and open to both bad and good criticisms.
2) Make better of yourself. Change what must. YOu'll feel good and confident, might not even go looking for a gf anymore. Love yourself.
3) Know the kind of girl you are going to ask out before hand. Get an idea whether she's a nice girl, a player, whatever.
4) Do YOUR OWN THING. Be yourself. avoid doing what you think is the ideal thing to do. Be sweet simple and sincere. Let her know straight to the point. But be gentle.
5) Just think of it as trial and error. Atleast you know a person on how they would tell you if they like you or not-rudely or nicely.
6) IF it doesnt work out, dont give up. THERES ALOOOT of girls waiting to find their own prince. Never give up and stay positive.
7) FEeL the LOVE! every rejection, just means you love more the next time around. Better than the previous.
2006-07-07 08:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it is probably because girls can sence that you are looking to hard. I mean, us girls know when a guy is looking gor a girl friend and that just makes them look desperate. You know, as they say, best things come wuen you are not expecting them.
In my opinion, the best way to make a girl notice yopu and actually have feelings for you is to become close to her (but not too close cuz then youll end up being just a friend), listen to what she has to say and show her that you care. Little presents can also make the way easier but be careful, you dont want to seem desperate!! just buy her a small chocolate or whatever she likes(chocolate is the best option) and say that you were walking arround and saw the chocolate, thought of her and though it would be nice to give it to her. You have to keep in mind that us girls like guys that are sweet once in a while. Just try to create a comfortable relationship with her, dont make it look ackward and dont be scared of any girl or what you think she will think of you. Just go for it, youll see its much easier than you think. Good luck!
2006-07-07 08:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by groovybubs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cant get true love in dozens nor u can buy them in sale. If u want a girlfriend who will sincerely love u n only u then u will have 2 wait 4 her. U will surely find her again. Best of luck.
2006-07-07 08:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Pichi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thier sevral things i can say but my first and most is communication if ya'll cant talk to each other it's a problem after that the rest is imagination very important, then comes trust , honesty, then comes love ....but To love is the hardest job keep , always work for it and you shall have it ..
2006-07-07 08:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Shawn C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you wont find her in 7 months slow down take your time your still young you don't want to be held down just yet date around to see what kinda girls are out there your first gf wont be "the one"
don't act so eager to be with them play a little hard to get
good luck
2006-07-07 08:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by gunitgrl627 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am single too and alone for a while. Well you have to find somebody that likes you. From there you have to let her know that you are interested in her. Build a friendship first and then ask her out on a date. ;)
2006-07-07 08:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by hellen_sal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should ask all the girls on the yahoo answers...
i would but i'm 4 years different so i don't know what age different you like but all the men i went out with say i always loved them back you could try to go out with me if you like.
2006-07-07 08:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by T L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you being a nice person??? Or obnoxious??? Hopefully the nice, would be good. Give it time. Get a job. Carry on with life, you will meet Ms Right!!!!
2006-07-07 08:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't try so hard. You never find anything when you are really looking. Second, if you get a concrete answer to that, sell it - you'll make a fortune.
2006-07-07 08:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by SAN P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell if your 19 you don't want one any way.go have fun and when you least aspic it.it will happen.from my personal experience that is how it works.the ol greater power takes care of that.then when you find one there will be two or three that are interested.
2006-07-07 08:15:40 · answer #11 · answered by jack_pot692000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋