well this guy got my name from a friend of mine and he came to look for me at my office, we exchanged fon numbers and we've been talking and sending text messages, i think i like him too and i want to give it a try but we dont know each other very well and i dont know whether he is serious or wants to joke around with me. he said he never starts something he cant finish, i asked him the meaning and he said if he didnt like me he wont say so. what do u think guys and gals cos im really confused and i dont want to make a mistake so please help me.
2006-07-07 00:56:16 · 14 answers · asked by SeXyBaBe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take it slow, he did COME to you (your office) looking for you so he has interest, so just take it slow and see what developes, and you never know he might just be the one.
2006-07-07 01:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my husband of 6 years said he loved me after 2 weeks. It honestly scared me and i told him i could not say it back because I was not ready. We have had a lot of bumps along the way but we are now married. So he ment it :) I met my husband when i was younger from a local chat room. Meet some where public if you do and don't push being alone with him til you trust him for sure. We met at a bowling alley lol.
2006-07-07 08:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by SiberianHusky_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out on a date with him, it doesn't sound like you have. What have you got to loose??? 1 evening out of how many. You have to make the first step somewhere. He must be a nice person if you have been text messaging him for 2 weeks.
2006-07-07 08:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about making mistakes, I think. I say, go for it. It's not like you have to decide about having children, etc., right now - just going out. Try some time together, if things don't work out, so they don't, life goes on.
No need to rush in more emotion than what comes naturally, though.
2006-07-07 07:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him as a friend, or if you think the relationship might work give it a try! It is not too soon. Go for it and see how it goes! ;)
2006-07-07 08:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by hellen_sal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then your not ready for this guy. There must be a red flag popping up somewhere to make you question him. Go with that feeling.
2006-07-07 08:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope..just go as slow w/ the relationship as you need to though...it's easier to speed it up when you have been dating than to speed it down, cause then you have to be like "wait..stop...this isn't what i want..lets be less serious"...just dont get that serious to begin w/ and tell him upfront that you like him ...and you'd like to date him (or whatever it is you're really after)...and then just dont let yourself get carried away from there....you be the leader! haha
2006-07-07 08:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight! but its not enough time to know each other. Take it slowly and relax and enjoy your dates but get to know him first before making any big decisions .
2006-07-07 08:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two weeks? if he says he likes you, then just date around for a bit and then later on see what happens between you two. =)
2006-07-07 08:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by RyanJP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u talk to him and find out tell him how u feel try to meet him places often
2006-07-07 08:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋