If I like someone younger then me, and im pretty sure they really like me as well, is it ok? I've read a lot of these but the reverse, and I want to say, I wouldnt force her or persuade her to do anything like that. I just deeply care for her and want to be with her. So ya.. do you think age matters like this?
2006-07-07 00:41:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
5 years difference between us.
2006-07-07 00:46:51 · update #1
It only matters if one of you is underage.
2006-07-07 00:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much younger, is she under 18? Is it legal? You have to make sure you don't get arrested. Is she old enough to understand being in a relationship with someone older. I often wonder what a much older person sees in a younger person, you come from different times and if you are mature you see things a little differently.
I sometimes think it is a control issue, you think you can mold that person into someone you want them to be but it doesn't work out that way, people grow up and grow apart and the other person resents you for taking their youth and opportunities away.
You need to think hard about the why of why you want to date a much younger woman, maybe because an older woman is wiser and knows her own mind.
Pick on people your own age, this girl needs to be with people her own age and grow up, you are ahead of her in that department and might come off as controlling and manipulative.
Think hard and long about this, you both deserve at least that.
2006-07-07 00:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by marianlaughs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mum and dad had 34 years huge difference of their a at the same time as. ( he replaced into fifty 4 and he or she replaced into 20 at the same time as i replaced into born.) They were married for 15 years previously my father exceeded far flung from maximum cancers. i'm 40 8 my spouse is 28 and we were married merely about 9 years. My 25 year old daughter thinks we make a suited couple. the biggest ingredient that has helped keep us mutually is very direct and open verbal substitute. We discuss each and every thing and although we've our disagreements we pay interest to what the different man or woman is holding and then we attain a compromise that works for both one human beings. And no my daughter does not call her mom nor does my spouse pick her to call her mom. very last note age is in straightforward words a huge selection not a curse.
2016-11-06 00:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the age of the people. Age DOES matter if one of the people in question is under 18 and the other is over.
If you are both consenting adults, go for it.
If not, stay under a two year gap. People change so much in their teens that a gap wider than two years can make the relationship incompatible.
2006-07-07 00:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Isabel C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Age never matter. Real and deep feeling from heart must be there. I myself like and gonna marry a girl elder to me. So just dun care about age and what people think. Go with your heart and mind. Try it. Best of Luck.
2006-07-07 00:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Akash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she over the age of 18 have fun but be cautious, if she under the age of 18 then DO NOT touch her until she is legal.
2006-07-07 00:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by chocolateheaven84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so long as the other person is of age, i see no problem with a differant age relationship.
2006-07-20 11:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your both over 18 then its up to the both of you. But be reasonable. Maturity level is important too.
2006-07-07 00:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends....
Beyond a certain difference... all the good intentions in the world doesn't count or matter.
What kind of difference are we talking here? 4, 14, 40?
2006-07-07 00:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. If the two persons are OK than there is no problem. But beware to not force her to do things she don't want
2006-07-07 00:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age has nothing to do with this, any age can go with any age
age does not matter
2006-07-07 00:44:05 · answer #11 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋