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i am utterly confused. i am 15 i have a job, i go to school i have good friends a nice good family life and a boyfriend. so why do i constantly sit around thinking about what the point in living is. what is the point in me focusing so much on my realationships and exams and stuff if all im going to do in the end is die?? what is the point of putting all this effort in??

2006-07-07 00:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

13 answers

to love and be loved

2006-07-07 00:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by solarisrulez 2 · 0 0

the point is so that you can have a happy life and enjoy while you are here. we will all die that is a fact. we do not know when it will happen,that is another fact. So would you rather waste your time worrying about death or would you like to enjoy the wonders and relationships we have in this world. The next world will take care of itself. You didn't worry about being born, don't worry about dying.

The point to studying and to working to find and make good relationships is that if you do not do these things you will have much less of a good time and less to enjoy and celebrate while you are alive. If you must take a time to stop and contemplate these issues and then stop it and go do something you enjoy doing. you have an opportunity to get an education. you have a job so you have money you have family and friends and someone to love who loves you. Girl that is worth all kinds of effort to hold on to. Do you know how many people are praying for what you have right this very minute? Do you know how blessed you are? that is reason enough to celebrate this life. Part of what you are feeling is part of being 15 but part of it is how you look out at life. Its up to you to choose.

2006-07-07 07:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by digimutt 7 · 0 0

Because all of those things make for a happier life. Try living a life without a decent job and good friends. Financial problems alone are the main cause for most divorces and fallouts between friends. People that are not stressed live happier lives. You will probably live a long life and you want to do that with as little stress as possible.

2006-07-07 07:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by pretty_brown_eyes 6 · 0 0

Well, you are fortunate than some of the teenagers of your age. I dun know why you suddenly have this thought. Try to confide to someone who can guide you through and share experience with you.

The main purpose of studying is just to train you and provide you with the necessary knowledge when you start working. You should try your best in your study and maintain the healthy relationship with your family and boyfriend.

You must always think of the positive things. All the best to you

2006-07-07 08:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0 0

I think the point of life is living it too the full ..yes its true your going to die one day (and you never know when your time is up ) so you might as well make the most of it while your here . find something you love doing and do it ..dont waste life doing things you dont like ..find a job you love ..find you passion ..your a special individual the only one of you ever made ..the only one of you that will ever be like you in the history of the world .

2006-07-07 07:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Perhaps you could stop focusing on yourself and realize the opportunities that you have to assist others. The purpose of life is to give service to others. Thus you increase the joy in the world.

2006-07-07 07:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Answergirl 5 · 0 0

the point of life.....hmmm....I firmly believe that God, "the Lord"...has put with in every one of us a "God hole" in our lives...that can only be filled w/ his presence. It creates a yearning for Him. God created man to fellowship w/ Him. I am sure as a child you recall the story of Adam & Eve...well...the orig plan went south...and "sin" entered in...and here we are on earth w/ a limited life span...but, by the grace of our Lord Jesus, who died on the cross for ALL sin, if we believe in Him and receieve Him and have relationship w/ Him, we go to heaven when we pass on...one of your purposes in life friend, is to share this good news w/ friends and strangers alike...that they don't have to suffer this "abyss" in their daily life...of "what is it all for anyhow"...the bible says friend...(I am paraphrasing now) for all you do, do it unto the Lord...that's pretty awesome...when you are out there...let's say in the middle of a soccer game...or cheer leading for example...you can smile...and say...yes, I do this for you Lord....I have a purpose in life...to be a child of God...what could be a greater purpose that? When alone, bow your head quietly, and ask the Lord to enter your life and in "His time" reveal HIs will for your life....be blessed!

2006-07-07 08:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by diane b 2 · 0 0

At your age, those feelings are natural. Don't worry, you are not alone to question the meaning of life.

2006-07-07 08:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

nothing to make ur self proud of what u r doing then when u die ppl remember u

2006-07-07 07:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

im wondring too if u got an good answer and not bunch of craap tell me

2006-07-07 07:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

THe point is TO BE HAPPY. Maximize happiness.

2006-07-07 07:43:14 · answer #11 · answered by shakamaka 1 · 0 0

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