we talked for 2 months dated for 2 months and HE moved in with me. We have been living together for 3 months I can NOT get pregnant. Plus I was tested for std's before we ever had sex. If he had any thing he has already exposed me.We have constant BY phone. He knows all of my friends. If any one should be suspicious it is me (and I am) because of the condom and past experience. So why would he suddenly put on a condom? I know condoms are not comfortable.
2006-07-07 00:36:23 · 19 answers · asked by anita_reel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll go a different route here. Maybe its a clean thing. Not wearing a condom sometimes can be messy. I dont know about you but I think washing the sheets every other day is a pain in the ***. Who does the wash? Serious response.
2006-07-07 00:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by Fabio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating 3 months is not long time to know someone; and if he never used a condom in the 2 months before and started to this 3rd month, I would think he is with someone else and would come out and ask him if he is, this would be the only reason for the condom all of a sudden, and if he knows for sure you cant get pregnant.
time to ask him straight out, no beating around the bush.
how old are you, that makes you sooo sure you cant get pregnant?
if you didnt talk about this before he moved in? might have to move him OUT.
2006-07-07 07:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the good side of things:
Well lets see. My step mom was told after her first son that she would no longer be able to have children. Well now she has 3 more babies and pregnant again. Maybe he is just trying to be safe. You should be happy that he is responsible enough to know that he is not ready to be a father.
On the bad side of things:
He could have cheated on you and got something. I very seriously doubt that though because if you live together wouldn't be awfully hard to get anything past you?
If you can't trust him to a certain extent then do both of you a favor and end it!
2006-07-07 07:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by PatricksMom* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of freaking out you should be glad that he is wearing a condom. Condoms can protect you when you least expected( STD's or getting getting pregnant) and sometimes they can be comfortable if you use them correctly. If he wasn't using a condom in the past with you my opinion that he didn't really care about your health or his, but since he is using a condom that means he is protecting himself and you from a mistake that can LAST a lifetime.
2006-07-07 07:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by chocolateheaven84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.... talk about a fast mover ! Moving in with you after 2 months of dating? Doesn't sound very stable. I agree.... you need to ask him why he is suddenly using a condom. Perhaps a visit to your gyn would be in order to have more STD tests. Especially since you are suspicious anyway !
2006-07-07 07:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Beaumeader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
i think he cares about your health; you know men could be in love and yet can take on any other girl that comes easy to them, its not the right thing to do and some of us if talked to lovingly can get out of it.
But now the truth could be that he had another fling with a new girl and he is not sure of what must have happened; and so decides to protect you.... am sure you will not want to fight someone protecting you.
For know just enjoy sex with the condom and find an easier way to talk it out with him.
I understand how you feel; and if you do love him take it easy with him, i guess he will get better.....i hope you now feel better...love
2006-07-07 08:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by jbiferi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he cares about you and besides they are not as uncomfortable as one would think. Unless you are planning to get pregnant then always use a condom even in a monogamous relationship since there is always a chance of getting pregnant otherwise. I would not be suspicious one bit and I would be thank full that he cares about you.
2006-07-07 07:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by francescototti1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are living together, why are you constantly on phone with him? Secondly, maybe he wants to makes sure you don't get pregnant, any birth control is not 100%, and lastly, maybe he has been having an affair, and is being sure he gives you nothing bad......either way...he is showing some responsibility...be happy for that much....ask him why he is wearing it now
2006-07-07 07:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and he could be thinking two things... one you are cheating and he ain't getting what ever you bring in to the relationship. two he is sleeping with someone else and he respects you enough(ain't that funny)to protect you... OR he is just figuring out that unprotected sex can produce children and he doesn't want any at this time in his life...
2006-07-07 12:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's wearing a condom because he is taking precautions which is good for the both of u and him.. dont take any unnecessary suspicions.. ask him nicely and i bet he will tell why he decided this.
2006-07-07 08:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by damain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋