Every time me and my man get intimate I usually imagine he's somebody else. It's never anyone I know, usually somebody famous.
At the moment I enjoy imagining he's Steven Gerrard (I know he's not even that good looking, although he is fit) and David Beckham
(an old favourite). I do find my man sexy and I'm really happy with him, but imagining he's some other hot guy helps get me going a bit more!
Anyone else do the same and who 'with'?
2006-07-07 00:35:40 · 14 answers · asked by calebolly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is absolutely alright to fantasize in the bedroom. Many people do this. Enjoy it.
2006-07-07 00:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it's wrong if you were to do it on the odd occaision, but the fact that you need to do it every time to get you going is a little worrying.
In retrospect, when I started doing that (and not only with famous people!), it meant something was wrong in the relationship, and that was a symptom of it.
But hey, each to themself. Everyone and every relationship is different.
2006-07-07 07:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by yodellingdolphinofkirkwall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens to lots of people... It is how they "get off"...
Personally, I tend to think about the person I'm with... Although recently a certain lady crops up at the most fun times... To replace the person I'm with or i see her joining in as a third... ;)
2006-07-07 07:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly I focus my complete attention on my fiance, however lately a certain man has been coming into my head the whole time and it does get me more and more excited! He knows who he is!!!
2006-07-07 08:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noticed that I was doing that about a year into my relationship. I have now been married for ten years. It is healthy, and normal. My guys were always john travolta, brad pitt and bruce willis.
2006-07-07 07:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb u got a crush and u dont realise it.. i think of my man and i like to look in his eyes when we get intimate... i see how deep he loves me at this time....
try it
2006-07-07 09:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by damain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really but maybe u2 need to do a bit of roleplay-add to the excitement
2006-07-07 07:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's odd...
Unless you've been having sex a LONG time...
then, you may need 'the variety' of a new conquest.
2006-07-07 07:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally dont,but you are normal.most women fantasise about other men.it doesnt mean you love your guy any less.
2006-07-07 07:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do that all the time it is normal.
2006-07-07 07:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Guzek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋