this is starting to piss me off?

Question

im an atheist but my mom is trying to brainwash me. i never thought she would turn crazy and start talking like her mom. she thinks that everything has something to do with angels like if she loses something like the phone or a button when she finds it she always tells me how reliable angels are and she thanks them. but now i told her something when i was drunk and i dont remember what it was now she thinks im posessed and is trying to make me wear a cross everyday but i take it off 5 minutes later. it is uncomfortable to be in the same room with her she is acting like her mom and i hate that old lady to death. shes now trying to make me see a priest. im not going. does anyone else think shes crazy?

im not touching a bible unless im gona beat someone with it

Answer 1

I don't think your mom is crazy. How old are you? You must be young. I know you weren't born an atheist. Peer pressure probably got you the way you are. You probably don't even understand fully what an atheist is. I think you need to go to church or read the Bible. Go visit a homeless shelter, or a nursing home. Talk to more people that do believe in GOD. Then come back and tell me why you don't.

Answer 2

Really? Are you pulling our leg here?
I doubt she's crazy. :) Just maybe over zealous. Here's some advice....and before you say absolutely not, just listen now...
Wear the cross before she makes you put it on. Pick up the Bible and read a verse or two and quote it now and again to her. Try to ignore the angle comments if they bother you. Everyones mom bothers them. We're stuck with them. Ya just have to suck it up and deal with that part. But you CAN "play her game" so to speak. If you DID see the priest and read a few chapters and found some stuff out, maybe you could even say something like "mom, angles are busy and didn't bring you button back" and she'd listen because heck, you went to see the priest and read the Bible! You're not possessed! You know what you're talking about.
I guess what I mean is, if you at least don't argue with her, and give her a piece of an illusion, she'll not be so weird around you and in the long run it may make your life easier.
Good luck :)

Answer 3

1st) She is not crazy, her attempts to bring you around to her religion shows she really cares for you. One thing to remember also she has been alive longer than you have and quite possibly experienced a lot more things than you have. She may see something down the path you are on that you don't.

2nd) You should cut back on the booze, if it affects you to the point of causing a problem with other people. I am not saying you have to quit, but a bit less might be a good idea. If you are usually having a good time when drinking at least if you drank a bit less you would remember it better.

3rd) Find out what you said. You are probably going to need to apologize to her. Remember, this is your mother and she loves you.

4th) Being an atheist, she is probably going to continually try to urge back to church( I assume you used to go). Talk to her, Communication is always the best route.

Answer 4

As an atheist I'm sure won't believe what I'm going to tell you either. By being disrespectful to your mom you are shortening your days on this earth. You should be glad that your mom loves you so much. Alot of people in this world don't have that. I don't know what happened to make you so jaded. I'm not judging just making an observation. Try to be a little more open minded. Think for a moment if she's right. Don't get so angry out of fear. God is love theres nothing to lose to listen about him. If you really hate God and your mom so much MOVE OUT I'm sure your mom could use a break from you also.

Answer 5

speaking as a christian i think your mom needs to speak to the priest. I believe that angels do play a part in the things we do and experience , but not when it comes to finding your keys. i think your mom has taken a few things a little more literally than they were intended when the bible was written. I must say that if the priest is a good one and true to his vows than talking to him and telling him what is going on and how she is acting and even what you believe might make things better. meaning he might call her in for counseling. the bible says in no uncertain terms that you are to hate the sin but above all LOVE THE SINNER. It also says in no uncertain terms that ONLY ONLY ONLY ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE. let he who has not sinned cast the first stone. i hope your mother can come to terms and accept you for who you are because when it comes down to it that is exactly what Jesus would do. all you can do is keep living your life and being the best person you can be. hell that's all any of us can do. P.S your picture looks like Danny Filth and imust say CRADLE OF FILTH KICKS SO MUCH ***!! I disagree with their point of view but i am glad they are so passionate about it, and that i can buy their albums and rock out to it.

Answer 6

Haha. Everyone is crazy, even you. What is normal anyways? (You can just hide stuff better than other people). Try to be open minded to her perspectives. Maybe she knows something you don't. Maybe she is afraid of death? Who knows. The only thing you can do is talk to her.

Answer 7

you better understand were all on this earth for a short period of time were all going right back to the ground where we came from dont think im being a fanatic or trying to pull the wool over your eyes ..its a fact...get yourself right and stay there pay attention to whats going on around you see the bigger picture my friend to many people are focused on whats happening right in front of them and dont see the world around them...ever heard the old saying...you cant see the forest because of the trees....its happening in life everyday

Answer 8

I don't think she's crazy, just very religious. And I don't think you should be talking about your mother and grandmother that way; it's disrespectful.
I would suggest keeping your head and just sitting her down and explain your feelings.
How old are you anyway, that you are able to get drunk and yet still living with mommy??

Answer 9

I think you are a little nutty, and so is your mother. Everyone has guardian angels that is true, but they dont find the phone for you. you need to have some kind of religion to have balance in your life. really, you do. you dont need to practice it, but just have some kind of belief system.

Answer 10

You are allowed to believe whatever you want. Your mom shouldn't be jumping on you. That said....try to get along with her. Make sure this is the result of some teenage angst crap. She is your mom after all.