It was a close friend's eighteenth birthday yesterday. We went out for a meal - me and two other friends, her, her family and boyfriend.
Problem is, she wants me to go out clubbing tonight too, but I really don't want to - I've had three late nights this week, and I had a throat operation last year, and if I get too tired this starts to hurt. I also have to be up tomorrow morning to meet my boyfriend.
I don't want to hurt her feelings but i really don't want to go out... what do I tell her?
2006-07-06 23:47:20 · 14 answers · asked by amyeighteenlancaster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Exactly what you've told us Amy!!!!
2006-07-06 23:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by baroness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once u went for a meal with her yesterday i think she should understand, tell her u've had three late nights so if u go clubbing tonight and stay up late ur throat will hurt, im sure she's know about ur operation.
2006-07-07 06:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with LoveMe's Answer---tell her the truth. I'm sure that she'll understand. Besides if she doesn't then shes not really one of your good friends!
2006-07-07 06:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥Nicole♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you had an appointment with your doctor and he asked you to take complete rest for couple of days.
2006-07-07 06:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by maxvijay2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMGosh I wish that's all I had to worry about. poor little you, you can't figure out how to tell your friend your not up to going out. Get over yourself girl. Man.....KIDS!
2006-07-07 06:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say ur ill, ur throat's hurting and you cant go.. and if she doesnt understand, u'll have to use offence as the best defence. ask her doesnt she care.. she'll bak down
2006-07-07 06:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth.. if she is a true friend she will understand and will get over it
2006-07-07 06:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by peaceandallthatjazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is ur true friend den she wil understand u dat u r not feeling wel.........if she doesnt.........den wats use of such friends???
2006-07-07 07:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her tht u r tired. tellin her the truth is btr.
2006-07-07 06:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by @LpHi!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
euh tell her the truth ... she is a friend she will and have to understand
2006-07-07 06:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋