my boyfriend left me ..................now I want to forget him!
How can I ?
2006-07-06 23:32:36 · 19 answers · asked by niki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
*delete sms,phone nr ,emails
*pack in box all stuff u have from him,or everthing what remind u him,pict,letters,teddy bears ect
*dont try2 contact him to be just friends,it could work after 3 years maybe not after 2 days....
*remmber that God have a plan for everyone of us,so mayeb he was just not ment 2b with U
* find someone to talk to,so u will forget him faster
*good luck sweety ,kisses
p.s.
write down things that were pissing u off in him!
2006-07-06 23:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ironic as it sounds: the most effective way of getting over a broken relationship is not by forgetting it, but by accepting it.
In the field of psychology, there's this theory that acceptance comes last, after denial, anger, and negotiation. But that's the theory. The point is, talk is cheap (including mine). I can convince you to just accept it, but it won't work that way.
True acceptance will come in time, maybe after some denials, some angers, or some justifications. But if you reflect your relationship and come into the realization that yours was not going to work anyway (and not because denial, but because it's true), then in time, you'll feel in peace.
And you won't have to forget it. On the contrary, with true acceptance, you may meet him again by chance, and don't hold any grudge about your past relationship with him.
2006-07-07 06:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by isman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try think of it as another lesson in life and if you are still friends keep it that way if your not just get out there and have a laugh with everyone I don't mean go find another boyfriend to get over your ex I mean have some you time go out partying, hang with your friends and just chill, cos you'll have plenty of time to and you'll enjoy every minute of it I know I am I'm having a blast.
2006-07-07 07:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to go through the pain and hurt. If you try to pretend you are not feeling hurt or try to suppress it, it will surface again in your life somewhere down the road. You just need to get through those feelings until you are so exhausted of those feelings and then it will be easy to move on.... until then you should not look for another relationship...
2006-07-07 07:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. In time you will forget him. Try getting involved in things do some community service, help people, make yourself feel good.
2006-07-07 06:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont jump into another relationship yet, try to forget him totally by not thinking about him, get busy by visiting friends and going shopping, read storybooks, jokes and laugh urself out, make urself happy cos no one can make u happy except urself.
2006-07-07 06:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of all the times he treated you bad and all his bad habits, slowly love will turn to hatred and in time you will forget him. Also get involve in leisure activities and have fun. Try it!!
2006-07-07 06:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by PunkGreen1829 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to think of other things and if you can't ,just remember the negative side of him. think of a better future, who knows maybe you find your right person in near future.
2006-07-07 06:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left u or u left him. Look whether who started it.
2006-07-07 06:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right.. if you truely loved him etc.. then you will course never fully forget him.
but do something you like doing.
something that takes up all your brain skills. something fun too.
2006-07-07 06:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by Sheshh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋