My friend thinks she is a really good, singer, actor and modell...She's not!!! She embarrasses herself when she gets up on stage and then she gets hurt when people say she's bad and blames it on her close friends!!!
Talking to her is doing nothing and I can't stop being her friend, SHE WON'T LET ME!!!
What do I do????
2006-07-06 23:18:34 · 13 answers · asked by Tori_08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She DOES do singing lessons, she HAS done modelling lessons and she's THINKING about acting lessons!!!
I have tried the recording idea, she STILL thinks she's great!!!
Keep the advice coming, it's great help!!!
2006-07-06 23:31:11 · update #1
Just be her friend. Tell her that she is great but can do still better. build confidence in her. Nothing is impossible when there is a will. kay Baby.
2006-07-06 23:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Romeo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You friend lacks self esteem and thrives on attention. Record her when she's doing her thing (singing)...play it back for her. Also photograph her doing her model runway thing. Show her the pictures.
If this doesn't open her eyes I don't know what will. Some people just have the idea in their pea brains that they have got the IT factor when they don't.!
2006-07-07 06:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Video tape her, show her what shes like and then show her what great is like, maybe encourage her to get voice lessons, modeling lessons, acting lessons, even the best get help and if she is delusional, I got a therapist that could hook her up
2006-07-07 06:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've done all you can do. be honest with her.
you could support her by suggesting she get singing lessons or acting lessons, that why you will see if she's really serious about that type of career, or is just discovering who she is as a person.
2006-07-07 06:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a suggestion to her that she takes professional singing classes.
Don't disagree with her, as she does consider you to be a good friend, and she obviously appreciates your opinion...
2006-07-07 06:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her keep embarrassing her self she'll eventually come to her senses.
2006-07-07 06:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her be. Its her life. you are not physically attached to her, are you? If you need to stop being friends, it is all in ur power.
2006-07-07 06:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be u do ur duty dont think to gets rewards in against
2006-07-07 06:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by sundeep2323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
record her embarrasing situations etc and show it to her maybe then she'll realise what you mean
2006-07-07 06:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by indianwitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to go audition for american idol..that way she can look like idiot to the entire country
2006-07-07 06:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋