My friends names ariadne.. i been knowing her for 3 yrs.. we are really good friends but i dont like her bf... Ariadne's bf often says "jokes" about me and i found it really disturbing, i dont say anything to him but he still does that eventhough he knows that i dont like his jokes(he does it on purpose just to make me pissed off)...the crazy part is that i ve never done or said anything to him.. My friend doesnt even tell him to stop.. I dnt wanna b like that with her bf... yesterday i asked ariadne if she wants to hang out with me at night tday and she said ok.. tday ariadne called and told me that she will hang out with her bf from 8-10 tonight... then i asked her if she wants to hang out with me just a little but she said no cz her bf told her that she can come with him ONLY 8-10! I told her 2 do what she wants not what he wants..I think that my friend sometimes is really stupid, she does wotever her bf tells her... what do u think is my friend a real friend?
2006-07-06 23:04:16 · 10 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It is a sad story but partout250 is right - spend some time with other friends who value you more and respect you, and who wouldn't let a boyfriend dis you like that. You'll come to realize that most friendships wind down even if you think you are really close, but there are always lots of other good people who want to know you and who will value your company. Don't put yourself in the position when you depend on the kindness of just one person.
2006-07-07 02:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Liberal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend has a potentially abusive boyfriend! This sort of controlling behaviour is only the beginning. She might not be much of a friend for YOU, but you may have to be a real friend for HER. If she ever finds the backbone to leave this boy, she will need your help a lot, then. Find other people to hang out with and spend your own time with, but be there when she needs you.
2006-07-07 07:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Petey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a real friend she just has a boyfriend and that sometimes changes things. Don't think that she's blowing you off, she's just confused. More than likely, she believes that she has to do what he says. When SHE realizes that he's no good, she'll dump him and come running to you her best friend and want to start hanging out again. If you want a bittersweet victory, when they DO finally go their separate ways, don't be there for her like she wasn't there for you but then you'll have to ask yourself; "is it really worth losing a GOOD friend over?"
2006-07-07 02:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by kittydiva_2017 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to let go of someone who you care about so much after three years, but you should spend time with other people. You will have more fun than you think you will without
ariadne.
2006-07-06 23:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by partout250 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that this girl really isn't a true friend. If she was a true friend, she would tell her bf to stop with his s***. I say dicth her, she isn't any good for you. There are plenty of people out there who will be your friend. Like if I had a bf and he was making jokes about my friends, I'd tell him to go to hell and I'd leave him because friends are more important! Leave this chick!
2006-07-07 03:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend probably acts so protective of her boyfriend and so UNprotective of you because she really likes,or loves,this guy shes with so much that she can't see how hurtful the jokes are to you or that hes being so controlling with her.She'll soon realize the errors or her,and his,behavior and either ask him to be respectful of her friend or leave him.
2006-07-09 05:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the smae problem... just start ignoring your friend and hang out with your other friends and eventually she'll come around... you have to kind of tech her that best friends r forevere even when the bf's gone. when she tries to get you to do stuff with her tell her that you have other plans i dunno something like dat
2006-07-07 03:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by got questions?. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not but b/f has his place in her heart, so u should not to interfare in their life try to meet wen alone n share ur problem she ll understand ur ploblem n n most important that reply his joke by a joke
2006-07-06 23:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your friend and her bf need to grow up and no she is not a real friend
2006-07-06 23:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You care for yr friend too much.
Let her decide what is good or bad for her.
2006-07-07 00:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋