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i joined this skl abt a year back, but i still dont feel that i belong 2 it. i feel ppl dont like me at all. i min i have frnds who do like me, but from sum time, i feel as if they too dont like me.i min i feel they find me boring. plz help me. wt shud i do 2 improve my connections wid others. ????
2006-07-06 23:01:56 · 12 answers · asked by appy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just have more confidence in yourself. if you feel you're boring, you'll give off that impression, and it will be a never ending circle. You deserve to be there, you have a right to be there, just enjoy it. If you look happy and engage other people, they will warm up to you.
The trick is to ask them lots of questions, look them in the eye and truly listen to their answers. If you show genuine interest in them and listen to them, they will really like you. It takes time, but it'll be worth it.
If you're shy and introverted, and seem un-approachable then you'll continue to not feel part of the group. Open yourself up, and realize that if they don't want to talk to you, it's THEIR loss, because you are a fun, fascinating person to be friends with.
CONFIDENCE CONQUERS ALL!
2006-07-06 23:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to mix with them more, join them in conversation or any group activities they're doing. Sometimes if you're quiet, they may think that you want to be left alone. Subsequently, you just feel being alone and not welcomed by the others. If you're shy, just find one or two people to talk to. If they're nice and good people, make friends with them. Slowly, they will introduce you to their friends.
2006-07-07 06:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by dlee1a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from that crowd! Do you really need to be accepted by people that dont accept you? What a waste of time, if you know they dont now, they more than likely wont later, get out and try new crowds, dont just stick to one little bunch
2006-07-07 06:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I would learn how to spell properly, this in turn will then affect your speech, because you will also be able to pronounce your words properly. Then people won't think you are such a thick cu*t and they will start to like you. Simple really!!!
2006-07-07 06:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by chrisnewcars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r not so borin u r thinking it like try to ask some nice questions in which you can entertain others
2006-07-07 06:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Katrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the things happening is in ur head..pls just take some time out and have a break..and relax..pls feel more confident and relax and enjoy the things u want to do..ok ..:) be happy
2006-07-07 06:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by groover1_1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't limit your contacts.don't indulge yourself within your group only.try making more new friends.deal with people the way they do with you.let the first step be from your side .try to know more people.don't make opinions about others on someone'swords.
2006-07-07 06:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by anusha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 b more friendly. Best of luck
2006-07-07 07:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by @LpHi!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what are you at to ask about. Confusing.
2006-07-07 06:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by buttar506 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2006-07-07 06:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋