i love him so much, but i really don't want to get serious with my boyfriend, since i'm still young . he seems like he really doesn't care about me feelings, he acts like it around me, but when he's around his friends, it feels like im an invisible person. but he tells me so many times that our love is "true." i think it's just straight up bullshit . don't you think ? what should i do ?
2006-07-06 22:58:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
YES, leave him now, find some new friends.
2006-07-13 12:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by CottonPatch 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel invisible, then how can you feel like you are a part of someone or something else? If you and him are "together", then why are you only together when you are alone? But the #1 question is: If you feel like it's BULL$HIT, then what does it matter what I thihk? You've already made up your mind. You don't need my answer, you just need someone else to tell you that you are right. Honey, you are right! You said you're young, so you you have time to figure your life out. Do you first, then find out who you want to do it with. You're worth waiting for, so when you've got you figured out out, then find a man who loves you for who you are. Only then can you be happy w/ a person who is happy w/ you. Wait. Do you! The rest will come. Boyfriends come and go, but your life is yours and yours alone.
Focus on you, the man will come to you when you get yourself to where you need to be! Let Go and Let God! It will all come when it's time, so don't rush it.
2006-07-07 06:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be greatful you found love. secondly don't break up with him without finding if out if he really cares for you. too many times ive seen relationships come to a crashing end when they believed the other didnt really love them anymore. and 3rdly all guys are like that with their friends. maybe talk to him about how he treats you in front of his friends or just try to be a little more social when his friends are around. but maybe if you truly feel like it wont work then you decide:) and if i seem a bit mean im sorry im a bit insane right now:D well good luck to the both of you.
2006-07-07 06:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by prettysadihavetohidemyname. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the only one who can really decide what you'll accept in your life. But here's one way to help you work through your feelings ... define the word "love" for yourself. Then see if this relationship meets your definition.
For example ... to me, love feels good, it doesn't hurt. When you're with someone who loves you, you feel cared for and treasured. They want to be with you as much as you want to be with them.
It doesn't matter how old or young you are ... if your relationship meets your definition of love, then it's "true". If it doesn't, keep looking. It's out there, and you'll find it.
Good luck!
2006-07-07 06:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Myrna B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy doesn't think your the best person in the crowd with his friends then he doesn't love you. when your in love you show off your girl to show how incredibly lucky you are to have her not make her feel invisible. Let him go, he can spend the night with his buddies.
2006-07-07 07:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Draco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he is showing off for his mates and if that is the case then he must not love you as much as he says he does.
I am a male and I have neve done anything like this to y girlfriend
It is really up to you but if it was me I would leave him (if I was a female that is)
2006-07-07 06:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by jackocomp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....seems like u need to sort things out in ur head first.....u need to ask urself what is it u really want!!!
if u dont want to get serious anyway how does it matter if the love is "true"......as long as he treats u right and u have fun!
if it means something....talk to him about it......dont assume ( assumption is the mother of all **** ups )
think it thru!
2006-07-07 06:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by a13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had similar things happen to me when I was younger belive me you need to just let him go. He only cares about himself and does not want his friends to know how much he cares about you. He is using you
2006-07-07 06:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are different when they are around there friends they want to act the big man in front of them, my boyfiend is someimes the same, just make a point to him that you feel weird when he doesnt speak to you when he is with his friends, hope this helps .....
2006-07-07 06:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show to him that you realy love him.your just like me my bf also done it to me.the things id do is told to him all what i ofserve or feel then the next tym me meet he never do it again.just tell it to him frankly.trust him and dont be jelous it will make you relationship weak.
2006-07-07 06:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnot cares for ur feelings leave him .let him go to hell .he is not the only man inthe world.u may find better than him ;at last it is up to u
2006-07-07 06:04:43 · answer #11 · answered by kahkashan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋