down and is looking for females only in his area, he dosnt know i know, ifeel very angry what should i do?
2006-07-06 22:58:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whats the site give me his details and i will reply and tell you if he is cheating!
2006-07-06 23:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Katey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affairs are the coward's way to handle things. It's also not your fault and you shouldn't listen to the male comments on here about whether or not you give your husband enough sex. Affairs are not only about sex. You could confront him and go to counseling but at this point, he's already shown his intent and maybe has already done it. If there was a problem in your relationship, he should have talked with you about it. It isn't up to you to make him happy. He's in charge of his own happiness and needs. He must speak up and communicate like a mature adult. The fact that he hasn't reveals a character flaw of his, not yours.
Print off copies of everything you found. Also, check suspicious charges on the credit cards. Put copies of all financial records in a file and keep them someplace safe.
Next, leave. Don't wait another day. This guy is set on cheating and or leaving you. It may be that he doesn't want to be alone so he wants to find someone else before he leaves or it could be that he wants to have an affair. Either way, he may have already done it.
Pack his bags for him and throw him out if you can. Change the locks on the doors. Do whatever you have to do to get this loser out of your life.
2006-07-07 01:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by CleverGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Hun
oh gosh i really feel for you this must have been such a shock
it could be one of two things i think
No1 he put his name etc on the cite to see if anyone would answer but wouldn't go through with it he just wants to no if he could still get a woman
or
No2
he wants to have a fling with out you knowing
i don't really no what to say if i was in your shoes
i would wait for him to come in and have the cite on were he put the AD
and ask him what his game was and has he been seeing woman your more than lightly get him saying i did it for a laugh but you have to find out for you
you do not deserve what he has done joke or no joke
don't scream and shout just be calm this will be hard to do i no but if you scream and shout he may shut up nd say nothing but if you are calm and talk he may tell you the truth
good luck thinking of you
respect
shaz
2006-07-07 00:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can chat 2 him online using a fake id. Then whilst doing that, do something out of the ordinary. Tell him 2 hop in the car and dont tell him where u r goin. Take him 2 the town make out place. Put on a cd or tape from when you first started dating, and tell him the story of the butterflies he gave you when you first pashed.
DO SOMETHING CRAZY THAT WILL MAKE HIM CRAZY FOR YOU AGAIN. In the morning make a passing comment like i hope after last nite, u will take your details off that dating site.
2006-07-06 23:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry to verify your question. i actually am interior of an same situation. i got here upon the web content, in simple terms as you probably did. each and each and every time I factor out this to him, he will deny it till I convince him that i understand that's his web site. Then he will stop for awhile, then interior of a few months he's back to an same element back. I believe the analysist who says he has a dedication situation. i'd say he loves you as a lot as he's able to loving all of us. yet till he see a counselor, you'll likely cope with this persistently. It perhaps deep scars that he can't get over because of deep damage lengthy earlier he met you. He has a decision, see a counselor and attempt to regulate. Your possibilities are to both leave him, bypass with him to couselling and desire to artwork issues out, or ask your self what he's as a lot as for something else of your existence. this stuff could have a pleased ending, yet there's a lot exertions and tears in between. i understand the devastating emotions you've and that i'm very sorry. I favor i'd have a strong answer for you, yet truly it would want to be your decision, and yours on my own. reward to you Suzanne
2016-10-14 05:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place you must understand why your husband want to do this? Is it you give him a lot of problems when he back from home. The only solution is "Love" and to show your love sincerely to him and he will automatically feel bad of what he is doing.
Besides, you can more wear sexy when you all in bed and let him get what he need. Once he use up all his bullets and don't he still got strenght for others ladies.
Please try and it is very useful because i am the one previously did like your husband. My wife didn't scold me at all but give me a lot love and sex. Until now, i love my wife very much and I will love her forever.
2006-07-06 23:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by John Yogi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go somewhere on anther computer like a friends house or liabiary and set up an add on the same one and fake you name and talk to him reall get to pretend to know him thats how you will find out why and what he really wants.be slick and sly get him hooked on you by not knowing who you are bull him then in a week or so set up a meeting with him you show up tell him you love him and you 2 work on all that is wrong.Rekindle the flame.Thats what is wrong with most marriages you must keep the fire hot.Or it will go out.That day of meeting romance him go out eat dance hold him like the first time hold on to your man
2006-07-07 01:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by rooroo1232001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make me real angry! I think that you should monitor this behavior for a bit, I bet he isnt on just one dating site. Find out all the info on your husband then confront him. I dont think that is healthy behavior for a married man! Or join the same site and write to him, see what he thinks of picking up his own wife.
2006-07-06 23:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,I've been through the same thing! Here's what I did! I printed out the information and I confronted him with the evidence! Then I let him know that if you are married and looking ,then look elsewhere because you wont be disrespecting me in my house!I told him to leave and When he knew I was dead serious ,He decided to just stay married and stop looking because girlfriend He wasn't leaving peacefully I was prepared to take him to the bank and cash in ching ching!
2006-07-07 01:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to that site, pose as another woman, and arrange a date. He can't deny anything when the two of you meet up at the agreed location.
2006-07-07 09:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by rustyshackleford001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage is in trouble. Is there enough sex in your marriage?
What things did you 2 have in common when you first met. Do you still have these things in common, do the 2 of do things together.
You should confront him and discuss the feeling that each of you have for each other, and ask what happen to the sparkle
2006-07-06 23:25:38 · answer #11 · answered by mklwis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋