I feel so stupid she is mi best friend n they have been together for seven months i only gave him head but i feel so gilty n i dont noe wat too do??
2006-07-06 22:27:50 · 13 answers · asked by hunny_bunn101 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
wow thats ..............awsome, not really but thats what your best frieands boyfrieands saying, no matter what people tell you on here you already know if your gonna tell her or not, but think about this....you dont tell her, and lets say the two have a bad break up....guys will tend ta bring up.. s h i t.. like that to a girl ta piss them off so dont be surprised if at some point he tells your frieand "well the BJ i got from your frieand makes it all worth it!!!" or something like that.... ya know what i mean....but hey we still love ya!
2006-07-06 22:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow. You should really look in the mirror and ask some serious questions on your own morality. YOU'VE BETRAYED YOUR BEST FRIEND. This isn't just any stranger on the street. It's your BEST FRIEND!!!
I think you need to spend more time thinking about how to become a better human being. The first step towards being a better human being is to tell your best friend that you gave his bf head. If she stops being your friend, that's fine. At least, you've done the right thing.
Good luck.
2006-07-07 05:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Tristan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy.....although in this case "kinda fooled around" gives no specifics, you should be true to yourself and ask yourself that same question. If your best friend "kinda fooled around with your b/f" wouldn't YOU like to know?
We are human, and we make mistakes, I believe that if you are woman enough to "kinda fool around" you should be woman enough to admit your own mistakes and be honest and truthful.
Tell your friend what happend. If you value her friendship you owe that much to her and If she values your friendship she will forgive you. Either way, worst case scenario she will no longer be your best friend, but you at least admitted your wrong doing, and perhaps have learned a valuable lesson in life.
Good luck to you
2006-07-07 05:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by spanishflyin_tx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly - y did u do it in the first places. and 2nd shes obviously not your best friend if you did that to her cos you would never to that to your best friend. and you should tell her becuse would you relly want your friend to be with someone who goes off with other people? she mite nt like you for a while but you're doing whats best for her by telling her the truth
2006-07-07 05:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Louise-Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say the same to her in a very diplomatic manner as if you just wanted to check whether the person was right for your friend or not.
2006-07-07 05:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Upal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, never tell anything like that. What she does not know will not hurt her. If the dude says anything, deny it. I doubt that he will. If you really feel guilty about it , giver her some head too. Everyone will feel better then.
2006-07-07 08:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by sonny_too_much 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree to keep this one to yourselves but if anything ever happens again or you know he's 'kinda fooled around' with other girls then you must tell her because it's not fair that she is going out with a cheat and you know and didn't tell her.
Also if he's fooling around he could have STI's so better get yourself checked out.
2006-07-07 05:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both agree to keep ur mouth shut. the relationship will proberly die down soon adn then it wont matter.
use a condom though.
2006-07-07 05:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by addicted to this 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first give me ur # second u f**ked up yes u must tell her or he will on day itll slip and that'll be the end.
2006-07-07 05:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by isopropyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you should tell your friend ,because you may have the desire to do it again!!!
2006-07-07 05:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by JOE P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋