i have a bird but everytime i go out onthe piss we go round the gay bars cos thier lively. it keeps happnin regular and other nite i went a little too far with with this bloke. the situation got a bit sticky.
does this mean i am gay?
2006-07-06 22:16:44 · 36 answers · asked by david p 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If it had been one of your muckers you'd kissed (in a standard pub/bar) when you were pissed then there'd be no question - it would just be 'cause you were pissed.
However, you enjoy going to gay bars "cos thier lively" and the guy you'd kissed was gay (?). You're certainly "gay-friendly" and I suggest less straight than the straightest straight guy. You're an opportunist (after all there would be very few girls, in a gay bar, who'd be up for a snog with you) - but you needn't be gay or truly bi.
Quick test for you: Do you ever fantasise about what it'd be like to go man on man? (many straight men do)
Have you ever snogged a guy when you were sober, and enjoyed it?
If you answer yes, to either of these, you could be bi-curious.
Now the biggy:
Do you fancy the guys you snog?
Answer this one with a yes and the chances are you're at least bi.
One last question do you (for completeness):
What about women - do you really fancy them?
Answer yes and you're straight or bi
Answer no and you're gay.
Simple, isn't it?
2006-07-07 01:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I believe that being on the piss lowers your inhibitions and lets you behave in the way you really want to.
So maybe you are gay or bi, in yourself I think you already know the answer to that, do you find men attractive?
If the answer is yes don't deny it to yourself, like I did for so many years, learn to live with it, enjoy it.
2006-07-06 23:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by mildly mad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean sticky?
Did you kiss him because you like him - do you find him attractive or maybe you were just curious?
Suppose you do like guy's more than girls? Could you imagine being with a guy rather thatn your bird?
Do you love your bird? Should you be honest and tell her about this - would she mind?
Hmm... Maybe you need a bit of help on this - I think you are confused!
2006-07-06 23:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Chellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you like guys. Sorry, but it's true. Take a freaky girl to the gay bar and get it on! Trust me, you'll thank me later.
2006-07-06 22:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get a rise out of it. Settle down cowboy. Go watch Brokeback Mountian.
2006-07-07 05:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow was that question English, not American, I may save it to show the difference in dialects.
That said.
Do you sexually fantasize about boys? Do you really prefer them to your "bird?"
If you do then maybe.
If you like them as well, you may be bi.
Likely you are straight and openminded.
Reyn
2006-07-07 02:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be bisexual, or bi-curious (unsure if you like both genders). Gay means you are not attracted to females at all. Like straight males feel about other male, you feel that about, women-friends-only.
2006-07-08 07:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by Padraig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not say you are gay when you are drunk you do not always have control of youre actions so dont feel bad. you are probably not gay, however some say when drunk you show your true colours either way good luck to you.
2006-07-06 22:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by jame_football 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contac your local Gay Helpline to find if you're Gay or Bi! Good luck!!!!
2006-07-07 04:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by Radio Ga Ga 73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think long and hard about who you are and what you want without using labels. Please stop cheating on your girlfriend, it is low no matter how confused you are. Think and talk to close friends, whilst sober. Ask yourselves questions only you can answer!
2006-07-06 22:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by Laura H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋