hi all! im prob worried over nothing but im paranoid of getting pregnant, which is why im still not having sex with my boyfriend and also because of few other reasons. when we were together this week i was on top of him giving him a bj, he did take his penis off when he was going to *** but i did get a few bits over my private,can sperm go in like that if it's not sex..pls advice as im terrified.
2006-07-06 21:56:50 · 31 answers · asked by Nasty Gurl From Around The World 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It is theoretically possible and the chances would increase depending on the amount you are talking about and how close to the entrance he got.
If you are worried and it's within 72hrs you could get the morning after pill which in UK is available from pharmacies. It may be worth talking to a doctor or family planning centre and brave the embarassment of talking it over with them. They won't mind they would have heard it all before!
I don't know how old you are either but if you have regular periods you can only get pregnant midcycle, you usually ovulate about 14 days before the start of your next cycle. So Day 1 is the 1st day of your period and you have a 28 day cycle, you would ovulate around day 14. If you had sex on days 11-17 the chances would increase of getting pregnant.
See a doctor for advice.
The chances of a woman getting pregnant as a result of having sex once, without contraception, is abound 30% at the woman’s most fertile time.
Also please protect your health from STDs and HIV by using a condom. You don't want to have the worry about that as well. You do not want to get chlamydia either as this can cause infertility poblems later in life and as 75% of women present no symptoms you may not know you had it. See weblink below for info.
2006-07-06 22:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kazcatlover 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If there is any chance that any of his ejaculate may have entered you then I would definitely get tested.
Would think it's highly unlikely without actually having penetrative sex but it's not impossible and in any case you should also be worried about contracting an STD or HIV rather than just about an unwanted pregnancy. Herpes, genital warts and other virus's can all be spread through contact so even if you're just experimenting with oral...unless you're both tested and faithful, it's probably best to use a condom at all times....that's why they make flavoured ones. [Alternatively...you could just put his penis in a drawer when he's taken it OFF and then you'd be totally safe when you play around *smile*]
Don't put yourself at risk, get yourself tested...I'm sure it's really unlikely...but now you've had this scare, try and be a bit more careful in future.....
Good Luck
2006-07-06 22:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sky-Dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unlikely you would get pregnant like that as sperm die when they come into contact with the air.
If you are that scared about getting pregnant, go on the Pill and use condoms as well. The Pill is 99% effective if used properly and the condoms would give you that extra layer of protection. Be responsible and use protection when you finally do have sex and that should lower the risks of you getting pregnant. You should not let your fear of this stop you from having a proper sexual relationship with your boyfriend if you want to.
2006-07-06 22:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been known that women CAN get pregnant with pre ejaculation (pre-***) this could happen to women that are highly fertile. You should go to your OBGYN doc and do a test. Also woulnd't be a bad idea to use condoms next time around, or some form of contraceptive
2006-07-06 22:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by spanishflyin_tx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In theory, it is possible since sperm swim, but it is not likely. Also if you are not ovulating (in the middle of your cycle - approximately 2 weeks after the first day of your last period,) it cannot happen at all! Also, I assumed that you wiped yourself off
right away and didn't just lay there afterwards. If you cleaned yourself off, you very likely killed the sperm. So try to relax and stop worrying about something is probably unlikely to happen. (you have a better chance of getting hit by a car tomorrow!)
2006-07-06 22:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I were given preggo on my honeymoon which in simple terms befell to be for the time of my ovulation. We had sex continually probably 4 or 5 situations an afternoon the first 3 days and then it tapered off slightly. i got here upon out i become preg. per week later. Now i'm 28 weeks and we prob. do it about 3 situations per week. good success!
2016-10-14 05:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sperm dies when it comes into contact with air. When having sex there is only a 1 in 4 chance of getting pregnant. The chances of you getting pregnant are very tiny.
I know you will worry about it until your next period but try not to. you will be ok.
2006-07-06 22:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah (31/UK) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-01 01:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be doing bj you can't be that naive, for you to be that concerned, he must have "taken his penis off" too late! In which case, it is very likely that "sperm" can "go in like that". Get real, IT IS SEX. Would it be too late for the morning after pill? And why women only? You did it with a man didn't you?
2006-07-07 02:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Naadu64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most likely u are safe. Do u know that u are less likely when u are on the top than u are below? Th sperms may not be able to get in, may just slide out.
What u can do is to do a test, so u can relax
2006-07-06 22:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋