i have been married for 13+ years.... please guide me. also what should the value of the gifts be in proportion to my income... if it is say $10000 a month?
2006-07-06 21:53:04 · 14 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Her B day
Anniversary
One time for no good occasion
Valentines Day
The day you get a raise
So that at least for 5 times per year
2006-07-06 21:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by mraei 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever stopped to think that there are gifts that have no money value? For example, how many times in a year do you tell your wife that she is beautiful? or that whatever she is wearing looks great on her? or that she has the most beautiful smile/eyes/legs? ... now, for gifts that have a dollar value it does not depend only on your income how much you can spare, but also on your financial commitments, and truth is I don't think you should be putting a price tag on your demonstrations of love.
2006-07-07 09:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by funstory101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to value your gifts if you love her and if she loves you she will understand too. You normally have to give gifts for the basic occasions like B'day, anniversary, Christmas. Apart from that you could give gifts to celebrate the day you met each other or on and off small gifts just to surprise her as women love gifts. They dont have to expensive, tiny gifts would do too.
Surely you should know this by now if you have been married for 13 years.
2006-07-07 05:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Shaks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a couple it's not out of the norm to buy them anything from time to time. No specific date to give them just to say I love you and I care for you and there shouldn't be a value on the gift cause it's from the heart so value doesn't matter.
2006-07-07 04:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her as many gifts as you want. There is no limit on it. As for the amount the cost isn't what counts, it's the fact it came from you heart that counts most. Only materialist people care about the cost. The rest of us prefer gifts that come from the heart.
2006-07-07 05:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by brighteyes62301 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving gifts to wives is all-time affair. It is not about money its about love. Every single day they deserve a gift of love and total commitment. However, as for wrapped gifts, one can endeavor to give anytime one is inspired to do so. There are no rules!
2006-07-07 05:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule for this.You should give presents to your wife every time you feel that the right moment is and every time you have money at that moment.It is important the attention and the gesture.Even if you give her the smallest rose she would be grateful because it is from you.
2006-07-07 04:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife fancies material things, then you could give her expensive things whenever you feel like it. But if she's a romantic, who values "little things" as long as they come from her man, then, the more often, the better.
2006-07-07 05:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by lovebug2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
365...give gifts everyday
2006-07-07 05:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by LoLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not like this
you can use your nice words to make her feel by your love you don't need to give her something to love you.
just be nice with her and don't forget to tell her always that you love her and you respect her opinion
2006-07-07 05:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by nourssing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋