does bi really exist or are people just craving attention?

Question

When I say attention I mean a lot of girls do say they are bi just because a lot guys find that attractive. That's why they make out with other girls and so on.

Answer 1

No I don't exist, I'm just a figment of the world's imagination.

I am delusional, to think that I could be attracted to both men and women.

I'm lying to myself and others when I say that I've enjoyed relationships with both men and women, singly and together.

Really I'm just an adult who, out of a desperate need to be loved, will cling onto the arm of any gay male or straight woman that catches my eye. Not because I'm attracted to them, but because I crave some comfort.

My behaviour is slutty and I flit daily, sometimes twice daily, between the genders because I am hypersexual and incredibly indecisive (thanks for pointing that out Alex H).

I should've been on the stage, because I want all eyes on me, all of the time. This is because I'm so full of myself and so selfish, I cannot bear the idea that anyone else should get any of the attention due me.

No. None of the above is true. This is not the confession of a fraud. I am bisexual and I am saddened (although not surprised)that people (in particular, some adamant, gays and lesbians) should be so biphobic and ignorant as to resent or debunk me for who I am.

Answer 2

That is hard to say some of the bi I have known I would say yes they only want attention for they end up tell me they will never marry a woman. So I guess if you are open to truly loving and marry either a man or a woman then you bi BUT if you will only date a woman but will not marry a one or cant never see your self marrying a woman then I would say that you only want attention, that makes you a s l u t. Those are the people that give bi a bad name. (O' I never met a bi who wasnt a s l u t,)

Answer 3

Yes it exists. I have friends in a three person relationship, and the love they feel for each other is extremely strong. It's not about the sex, but rather the relationship between them as a whole. So it does exist. However, you are right, there are people out there who just crave attention and use that as a means to get it...so to speak.

Answer 4

Exactly how does being bisexual get you attention? I'm bisexual and I sure as hell don't get any special attention. Maybe when I'm out with my girlfriend, but that's not the kind of attention anyone would want. I don't see why anyone would pretend they're bisexual for attention. Because the only attention you're going to receive is hate, from both sides.

Answer 5

I like both boys and girls and I've only had one boyfriend (and yes that does mean I've only done things with one person). I don't go by bi though.. Unfortunately people do use it as an attention getter.

Answer 6

Bi's really exist and aren't just craving attention.

Answer 7

"Being a Bisexual increases your chances of not being alone at the weekends." Woody Allen!

And I am bi and I love it. In fact it's really exciting and never makes U bored!

Answer 8

I don't know actually...I think the main question is 'Am I bi or am I just slutty?'...I'm not sure...maybe they're just confused, maybe they want to get the best from the 2 sexes...

Answer 9

well, yaa there are real bisexuals out there, my fren is one of them
shes not the slutty type. shes really kind of nice but personally i think shes rare
most bis just wana grab attention

Answer 10

bisexuality does actually exist. straight girls who get drunk and make out in bars on the dancefloor in front of every straight guy in the club, doesn't make a bisexual.
true bisexuals have meaningful relationships with both men and women, not just sexual relationships.
drunk girls in a bar, and i say girls because most straight guys aren't going to make out with each other drunk or not, making out with each other don't make bisexuals.