Leave the person abusing you..
2006-07-13 12:19:19
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answer #1
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answered by CottonPatch 7
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To avoid sexual abuse, avoid substance abuse. Avoid unsafe situations and unsafe people. No rides with strangers, no going out alone at night, no getting so trashed you don't know what is going on....
Registered sex offenders addresses are available online in almost every county- check your neighborhood.
Do background checks.
Don't ever have sex to make up for feelings of insecurity or mistake someone wanting sex for someone loving you and caring about you.
Trust your instincts.
If you are abused- report it! Tell the police. Tell a teacher, friend, doctor, parent, but tell the police. Your courage in reporting it may not just help yourself but save another.
2006-07-07 04:49:45
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answer #2
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answered by maisy 1
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This is a difficult question to answer though several suggestions have been made by the experts. This can never be fool-proof.
Safety tips:
“Your body is yours” (the right to privacy). - Nobody has got the right to touch you if you don’t want to be touched. - If somebody is bothering you, no matter who that person is, you have the right to stop him and tell the trusted adult (e.g., mother). - If a stranger asks you to go with him/her, you should leave quickly and tell your parets, teacher, neighbour.
“You have the right to say No.” - You have the right to say ‘No’ to adults, not answer their questions, and scream for help if you feel you are in danger.
“Find a grown up who listens to you.” - If some one bothers you, hurts you, or scares you, find a grown up who will listen to you, and tell him/her what happened.
“Trust your instincts.” - If you get a feeling that something is wrong, you have the right to get away. - Be aware of your surroundings. If you think some one is following you, you can cross the street, change your route, run away, or go to a store or a restaurant.
“Know your neighbourhood.” - Know where the police department is located or the stores and restaurants where you could go for help, when necessary.
“You have the right to get help.” - Think about the adults who can help and the adults who will listen to you.
At home, at college or at workplace if any man tries to make sexual advances, be strict right from the beginning and tell him that you do not like it. Run away from him or at once shout for help.
Anonymous obscence telephone calls fall under non-cognisable offence under the Section 115 (2) of Criminal Procedure Code. When such calls are received regularly, a written complaint may be lodged with the police who will inform MTNL to trace the call. You can also complain in writing to Divisonal Engineer in charge of your exchange, who can trace the caller and take the necessary action. If the perpetrator continues to make obscure calls, his telephone will be disconnected under Rule 427 of Indian Telegraphic Act.
The mother should not leave the custody of the girl to a single man. The person may be trustworthy, but his sexuality may not be.
The mother should establish a good communication and friendly relations with her daughter, so that she is free enough to disclose her love affair, or sexual abuse. The parents should make her feel that she will be loved and supported in any odd circumstances. Many girls do not inform their sexual abuse to their mother merely because they feel that it is their fault too, and that the mother would scold them for the same.
Boys and girls should be given sexuality education so that the girls will be able to protect themselves against the possibility of rape by learning self defence, by assessing the situation that may be dangerous and by assertivness skills. The boys too will learn that sexual abuse is a punishable crime, and will realise their responsibilities and will refrain from sexually abusing the girls
2006-07-07 04:42:05
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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Empower yourself, learn assertiveness, practice healthy boundaries and carefully examine chemical substance abuse/dependency.
2006-07-07 04:48:46
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answer #4
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answered by kentucky queen 2
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Don't go places that you would be vulnerable, don't go places alone, and tell an adult if someone is abusing you at home.
2006-07-07 04:35:41
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answer #5
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answered by JillieBoe 4
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Listen to your gut feeling,if it feels like a wrong situation get out and stay away.If someone does something you don't like,report it immediately.
2006-07-07 04:55:34
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answer #6
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answered by rosie w 4
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you don't say how old you are.... stay away from whoever is abusing you,
2006-07-07 08:15:01
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answer #7
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answered by txcatwoman 5
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live in a cave by yourself
2006-07-07 04:36:13
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answer #8
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answered by mia t 5
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grow older. you'll escape.
2006-07-07 04:51:52
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answer #9
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answered by thrillerboy 2
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please avoid being "MALIBOG">>>>>>>>>>>>.
2006-07-07 04:38:18
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answer #10
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answered by Anonymous
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