Hello. I for one look for intelligence as well as a good personality and attitude in a woman as well as physical attractiveness for anything long term. For short term, I just check the physical attributes out. But, yes, I agree. If all men are looking for is outward appearance then I definatly think they have their heads up their asses. Having said that, I also think that women who judge the value of a man by the size of his wallet and/or his penis also are whacked in the head.
2006-07-07 06:05:07
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't that maybe the first thing that they look for...isn't that the first thing you look for in a guy. They don't really know if they like you or not until they know your personality...some men are really shallow but those are also the kinda guys that stand in front of a mirror for 3 hours adjusting every peice of hair to make sure everything is in place. Most men are attracted by looks but if you have a really horrible personality chances are they aren't going to stick around for long. I mean you want to be able to have some sort of intelligent conversation with each other. Even someone who isn't perticularly 'beautiful' by whatever standards can look more and more beautiful to someone based on personality alone. Just my opinion.
2006-07-07 04:33:52
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answered by KitKat 3
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That is tru, but most of the times beauty just has a certain role in the whole situation. take me for example, yes i want a nice girl, cute smile, not 2 big, but not 2 small; but, its also puts me off if she is a total AIRHEAD. She gotta be layed back, funny n have a nice personality.
2006-07-07 04:49:58
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answered by Ace-Balla 3
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i think men look for sex in a girl first. beauty , or at least hottness matters to almost every one i know. beauty to me isn't all on the outside, and i'm sure most women agree
2006-07-07 04:34:48
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answered by tree 1
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beauty (by this i assume you mean external beauty) is the first come-on to guys. it is not the only thing guys look for but allow him to eliminate those he is uncomfortable with. later, among those beautiful girls a guy know, he will zoom in to those who possess inner qualities that he is attracted to. since beauty is in the eye of the beholder, a girl who is plain to one may be beautiful to other guys. therefore i hope gilrs who think they are not beautifully attractive to guys will keep their hope high.
2006-07-07 04:33:52
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answered by jazzylips 3
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yeah it happens were attracted to a pretty face or sweet (insert fav body part here)
2006-07-07 04:34:36
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answered by Mr Spock 4
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not for out beauty but in
2006-07-07 04:34:15
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answered by Jane 2
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WHILE ITS NICE TO BE WITH A GOOD LOOKING LADY, SHE ALSO HAS TO HAVE SOME BRAINS SO THAT WE CAN AT LEAST HAVE AN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION.
2006-07-07 04:32:05
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answered by MUSHMAN 6
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not me
2006-07-07 05:37:57
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answered by Conservative 5
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99.9% of them do.
2006-07-07 04:30:01
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answered by FILO 6
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