i have been with my boyfriend for three years and I KNOW he watches porn. I feel like he is cheating on me and why would he need that if he has me right? Well will you please help me? Should I let him watch it or not?
2006-07-06 20:44:00 · 11 answers · asked by Kevinemy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its natural to get attract towards these type of pictures for a normal human , don't make it a issue , you should be happy , atleast he is not eyeing other girls , and without harming if one get some kick , how its concern you , may be he is performing better, so just relax and enjoy life .
2006-07-06 20:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-28 01:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is choosing porn to making love then there is a problem. Is he is doing it to improve his relationship with Rosy every once in a while I say there is no harm. If there were no porn on the internet there would only be one site left and that would be "Bring back the porn"
2006-07-06 20:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never OK if something silly like this harms your relationship or your feelings. i know how it feels like....left behind, not attractive enough. but men tend to go this way in anyway. I asked the same question here yesterday. my husband has some kind of interest in nude pics and eventually porn.....he would say he doesn't but the first chance he gets he will do it.
if Ur guy try to tell you that this is NORMAL guy thing don't buy this ****. is it normal for him when he knows this hurts you???????
2006-07-06 21:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by tinker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PORN MOVIES ARE THE FURTHEST FROM REALITY YOU CAN GET. LIFE IS NOT LIKE A PORN MOVIE. IT'S JUST ANOTHER PART OF HIS FANTASIES AND I THINK WE ARE ALL ALLOWED TO HAVE THEM. I BET HE'S BIG ON FANTASY. YOUR BOYFRIEND PROBABLY HAS A HIGH SEX DRIVE AND USES THE PORN TO VENT SOME OF THAT. IT'S REALLY HARMLESS, PERSONALLY I FIND IT BORING. IT'S JUST IN AND OUT IN AND OUT THE SAME OLD SAME OLD. BE GRATEFUL HE'S NOT INTO CHILD PORN OR BDSM, THAT'S WHEN TO WORRY.
LET HIM VIEW HIS PORN AND HE'LL LOVE YOU EVEN MORE FOR IT.
2006-07-06 20:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by PAULA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is just...watching life....not living it.
I believe if we love someone...then we care about how they feel...we care about their happiness...so maybe if you let your boyfriend know you feel a little left out...maybe a little unloved...he will see that the best way to enjoy you...is to really be with you.
Porn is okay.
He's not cheating...
but he's not really living is he...
let him watch if thats his thing...but let him know it bothers you that he's not spending that time with you...
2006-07-06 21:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!kevinemy hw r u? well even my boy friend is bit too much in sex n all.i mean he always keep on forcing me2 do something physical. i know such things r quite confusing n make us doubtful of our bfs but wat we can do is 2 ask them clearly about their priorities n if they say they really r too much willing 4 **** then u may decide that u would like 2 continue with him or not but continuing would mean that either u give him what he wants(****) or keep a good check on him
2006-07-06 21:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you uncomfortable then you should try asking him to quit it. I would never let my serious boyfriend watch it!!
2006-07-06 20:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok if watched with moderation. It may enhance your sex life. Addiction is another thing
2006-07-06 20:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. let him know how you feel- maybe he'll stop.
2006-07-07 01:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋