Every move I have made, decision I have made, step I have taken and breath I have breathed has been wrong!! Done in the wrong way, at the wrong time, or wrong in some other way! I need to know how to stop this!
2006-07-06 20:43:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I have asked my friends, all of them are notorious people pleasers or cutters. so i got 2 options from them
a) ugh! jasmine! you are NOT a failure!!! hey come get ur nails done with me! like, that'll make you feel better!!!!
b) kill yourself its the only way to get out of your kind of situation.
neither of those answers have helped me.
2006-07-07 08:46:24 · update #1
it's referred to as suicide. that will stop all of that. that is what i would do if i were in ur shoes but i am not .
2006-07-06 21:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by naztman2000 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
You should stop thinking that you are useless. Nobody on earth is useless. It just happens sometimes the things dont work, but it is a temporary phase. Spend some time in meditation, practice enjoyable hobbies, you will overcome the situation and when you start a new project do give adetailed thinking do not be in ahurry or dont decide at the spur of the moment, relax first and then think, dont even discuss with toomany people that also leads to confusion, you can discuss with one or two person who are reliable as you know, and then derive to a decision, I am sure you will get a right decision. And most important, be cheerful and a positive thinker, just keep in mind, whatever happens, it happens for good. Life's like that SO Keep going!!!
2006-07-06 20:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cute Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only need to change your point of view. Why do you think you did it all wrong? You did things in the way you thought would be ok, and only that is what matters.
If you're religious or only believe in fate, perhaps you were meant to act so in order to achieve something better later.
My favourite novel is The Stranger by Camus. Probably the most famous line is: "I've done many things in my life. I could have done things differently... so what?" I just want to say there is no right or wrong way.
Nice advice from an atheist, who's similarly a pathetic loser jerk, eh? LOL
P. S.: Rahul is right; without those mistakes you wouldn't be the same person as today. Do you think it would be better?
2006-07-06 20:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people who are now happy and successful have been through what you are going through now. Just knowing that NO-ONE is perfect should be of some help to you Jasmine, to know that you are not alone in this very im-perfect world! How can you say even 'every breath you have breathed has been wrong'? Gosh, then we all have the same problem! Try attending some yoga classes, where you will learn balance and harmony and then, eventually, you will learn to accept yourself as someone unique and individual and special! Take one day at a time and try concentrating on ONE of your problems at a time, until you learn to control it. Reward yourself afterwards and promise yourself to love yourself and others from now on.
2006-07-09 01:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by steff d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound the way I do after a bad breakup from a guy who was all wrong for me. If that's the case, just take some time to work on yourself and try to stay out of a relationship for a while. If not, and you just feel the way you live your life is wrong, then think about this. . . Who's standard of right and wrong are you trying to live up to? Every mistake we make is just a lesson learned. Learn from the "wrong" moves that you make and you'll know how to handle them next time. Eventually you'll have everything under control. Good Luck ! ! !
2006-07-07 04:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by The Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think they decisions you made are wrong? Whenever I have to make a tough life decision, my mother always says after I make a decision then it is the right one and I should stick by it. I think we make choices in our life for reasons that may not be evident to us immediately. If you still think you are a screw up, then put more thought into your choices. Try to figure out what may happen either way, you know like weigh the pros and cons. You're not a screw up, everybody makes mistakes and bad choices.
2006-07-06 20:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by angib18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be so harsh on yourself. a day will come when u realise that those mistakes were meant to teach u things that u need to learn. besides a life that is spent in making mistakes is a usefull and a true one while one who does not make mistakes is actually a failure as that indicates that he has not done anything. big things are acheived by ppl who have done so many mistakes in thier lives. when good things start happening, everything will come your way so hang on and keep the faith...good days arre around the corner..all the best
2006-07-06 20:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think first, act/talk later. Ask yourself "what is going to happen if I do X, and do I want to deal with those consequences?"
That said, I doubt that you're really as much of a screw-up as you think you are. If I were you, I would go talk to a friend or an adult that you can trust to be honest with you, and ask for their opinion. If this is something that you've been feeling all the time for months, then consider talking to a therapist or a counselor.
2006-07-06 20:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to someone that you trust and discuss the pros and cons of what ever decision you are about to make.
Also, NEVER NEVER NEVER make a decision on the spot (as in to buy soemthing)
If a salesman is telling you this is going to be gone by the time you get back and you'll miss out. Tell him you'ld rather miss out.
That is a very old tactic, and believe me if they want your dollar they will get you one... But don't let them rush you.
2006-07-06 23:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you do that?I was thinking the same thing.Then,I realised that if I were any different,I would be just like the people that annoy me.If you did everything right,you would probably know it and feel smug about it.Would probably brag,too.No one wants to hear how perfect someone else is.You would be less popular with regular people because you would make them feel bad.I'm sure you're just fine as you are.There are many ways to do any thing,and you are doing things your way.Trying to fight your nature just makes things worse.Laugh about it and move on.That's what I'm doing.
2006-07-06 20:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by kimberli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on. Bullshit. If you think like that, it will be true, but only to you. People make mistakes. Some more than others. But that's a part of life. Don't think it's an easy game.
2006-07-06 20:47:58 · answer #11 · answered by yami_mani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋