sometimes i wonder i have dreams about both men and females does dreaming bout both make me gay?
2006-07-06 20:38:06 · 12 answers · asked by netline32 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I dreamed once that I was communicating with a car. That doesn't make me a Cadillac.
It's normal to dream about both men and women, and it's normal to even have dreams that may violate what you consider yourself to be during waking hours. Chances are, you didn't even dream what you thought you did, but that was how you interpreted it all when you woke up. But either way, it's nothing to cause you to wonder if you're gay, unless of course, you're having sexual desires for men during your waking hours. In which case, examine that, examine yourself and decide if the "you" that you project to other people is the person who you really are.
2006-07-06 20:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by chipchinka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oftentimes dreams signal a lot more than they let on. Sexual dreams about anyone could be a sign of some turmoil or longing you have about that person. It may have absolutely nothing to do with a conscious urge to be with them, just your subconscious talking in a weird way. The only way to tell if you are gay is if you actually find yourself attracted and only wanting to be in a relationship with the same sex. If you are still interested in girls, and find yourself also interested in guys, most consider that bi. If consciously, you aren't interested in the same sex at all, then no worries, you're perfectly straight. Every human being has weird dreams that involve the same sex at least once in their life, you're perfectly normal.
But this world is way too obsessed with labels. I love guys and am extremely attracted to girls, but I don't consider myself bisexual, straight, or otherwise. I just am. I'm in a perfect, loving, straight relationship, and while I'm sexually attracted to certain females as well, I wouldn't date one, I also probably wouldn't "fool around" with one, for the specific reason I wouldn't want to be in a relationship. But even if you do like guys as well, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it, it just means you can see the beauty from both angles.
2006-07-07 03:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Manders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this dream book and it says if you dream about an individual of the same sex that you are close to it means you want to know them better. Okay so if you are kissing or other things with another male it might mean that you just want to the person on a deeper level. I dont think it means you are gay. Although if you are a bit curious then you might be bisexual. But if you are just inquiring about the dream itself then it suggests you are not.
2006-07-07 03:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams sometimes you feel the reality because dream is that what you always think before dreaming it.... it could not be a conclusion that your a gay if you just dream of that but if you really wish to became a gay then thinking of it is a dream come true... added if youre attrative to the same sex then youre a gay
2006-07-07 06:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by vijaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you dream about it and wonder when you are awake you might be. Try this do you find yourself attracted to a man you see everyday? and are you still finding women attractive if you get turn on by men and women you are bi but if you do men you are gay. I hope this helps
2006-07-07 03:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by coolhandjoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say your not gay. Dreams are dreams, and you can't control your dreams. Now...if you were to get a bonerr when you think of a guy, I would be worried!!! Otherwise...take it for what it is...a dream!
2006-07-07 03:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Donny W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not gay but from what I have been told, if you have to ask then you are not. I think that it is natural to be curious about different sexualities, but to be gay I think you would know from a very young age.
2006-07-07 03:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally not! ,your just maybe having,difficults with certain people in you life, & this is a way of helping you get answers to a situation. That"s why we have, Dreams!. To help in our every day life!.
2006-07-07 03:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by sqishieears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends if you're attracted to males or females when you're awake,you could be bi. If u find yourself fantasising about only males in your waking hours you probably are gay, nothing wrong with that.
2006-07-07 03:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not gay...if I dream that I can fly can I really fly? No its ok dont worry have fun in your dreams that's why they are dreams or fantasies :)
2006-07-07 03:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by tinker143 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋