ok i am a gurl and i have the biggest crush on this gurl?

Question

i like this gurl and i just told her i am bi and she didn't care. but now she asked me to come to her house and she said it in a weird way what should i do . (don't put things about sex cause i am only 12)

Answer 1

ignore the jack *** that posted the "ew" comment!
go to her house and see what exactly she was intending, its cool you have your sexuality sorted out at 12, more power to you! but you will indefinitely face a lot of discrimination, don't let it get to you! Good luck!
-Jasmine

Answer 2

Oh baby aren't you a little young to know if you are bi or not? I only worked it out at about 16, and I was only ok with it by 20.

Just have fun, do normal 12 year old stuff. Don't stress out about whether your bi or straight or gay or whatever. There is plenty of time to work all that out later!

Answer 3

I can see some of us adults still cant follow directions. Nothing about sex was blatantly display and Mr "eeeewwww", couldnt hold.

Sweetie, you are at a point in your life where you are curious about life period boy or girl. and your parents more than likely only allow you to have "girl" friends at this time in your life because you are very young. And if you are here asking us about it apparently you are afraid or ashamed to talk to your parents about this. Do not let these people online discourage or belittle who you are. Your "girl" friend may just want to be good friends not "bi" or "gay" but platonic friends. And the crush is no more than CURIOSITY of what your teenage years hold for you and with "girls" being closest as friends guess what you are going to wonder about ??? If she was a boy, it would be the same--crush (curiosity). However I am quite sure at twelve you would not be asking your parents can you go to his house, would you? Do not label yourself as "bi" or "gay", and I speak from experience, true experience--at twelve i was curious as to what "it" was like (boy or girl). At 15, I found out (boy) it wasnt all it was cracked up to be!!! Now here I am at 29, and have the knowledge of what "it" is like, and I will not finish this but girls are pretty or beautiful to me also...but it does not make me "bi" or "gay", just proves I have good taste. Good luck in whatever advice you decide to follow and I hope it works out for you.

Answer 4

Shouldn't you play with your doll or something.......you're only 12.
Don't you think that you'll have all the time in the world to discover if you are bi or not,....and explore your sexuality and who knows what??
This is a period in your life that will pass and never return....don't miss it.
For everything in life there is a right time.....don't you think that you should grow up a little...

Answer 5

come on gurl, you're only 12. stop chasing her and get going with a boy or something else , get into studies. forget about her or just be frnds or one day you'll regret. this could be a setup.

Answer 6

I actually have the very same issue with this woman in my college, merely be cool and wait on your friendship to get more beneficial, or perhaps as the time is sweet, ask her out and the completed rejection element will be forgotton interior of two weeks. reliable success guy! and need me success with my woman!

Answer 7

I don't think you should go to the girls house. Sounds like there could be trouble and you are to young for this.

Answer 8

Well go to her house

im 12 to and that is perrty f ucked up

Before we know it everybodys gonna be gay and lez...i hope im dead by then..

Answer 9

I wouldn't go honey. It could be a set up of some sort..

Answer 10

eww at 12, geezz thats, i dunno how to put it, at 12?! i barley even liked girls back then, this world is really becomming f*cked