Can this "Second Time Around" be as intense, or even more so?
2006-07-06 19:50:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah!!! for me its called destiny
2006-07-06 20:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by samantha 1 · 16⤊ 3⤋
It depends on how you fall out of love in the first place,
1) If it's due to young age then yes, reason: in the 1st place both of you are not mature enough and don't understand what love means
2) If it's due to having no time to maintain the relationship, then yes again, reason: you realise your mistake and you know that you will not make the same one again
3)If it's due to incompatible in character, it will be a no, reason: it's not easy to change a person's perspective, let alone character you'll both end up falling out of love again, making the same old mistake because if you would have realised it then, you wouldn't have fallen out of love in the first place.
4) If it's due to betrayal, then I'm sorry, in this case, it's a definite no no, reason is: a leopard will never change it's spots
2006-07-07 03:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by tangwynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course.
But from experience if it didn't work the first time it probably won't work this time.
I fell in live with my university sweetheart twice, 10 years between them. Unfortunately she hadn't changed/grown up and I just got hurt again.
Life is about moving on and learning from your mistakes.
Then again maybe I was always in love with her.
If you fall out of love as you put it, is it true love anyway? or just that initial buzz when it all new and exciting?
True love lasts a lifetime.
2006-07-07 05:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rob G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's a scar in the previous relationship, I don't think it is possible to fall back in love with the same person again.
2006-07-07 03:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by PaperCloUDs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe you can. It takes the phrase 'if you love someone let them go, if its meant to be theyll come back' thing to understand it really. Im back with an ex and now were just more certain we were meant for each other. I know that it was hard breaking up but now that were together, we are so happy we found our way back to one another.
2006-07-07 02:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is I'm in love with an ex and we split up 5 years ago but unfortunately for me he doesn't feel the same!
2006-07-07 02:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you if you truly loved someone you always will love them. its very easy to fall back in love coz the things you loved about him are still there and more so the person would have known what tickles you and has easier chances to win you back
i still love my ex of 4.5 yrs i have no clue what he feels coz i believe in lettin go and if its meant to be he will sort me out ha!
2006-07-07 03:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ruby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've done it at least twice in 15 years. It's gotten better each time.
2006-07-07 03:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible, especially when it is a first love
2006-07-07 06:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anne O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible but just think bqck and remember the reasons you feel out of love with that person
2006-07-07 03:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by amanda s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why'd you break up the first time? That's probably the same reason you'll break up the second time.
2006-07-07 02:58:06 · answer #11 · answered by Millie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋