I'm 16 and depressed... Today, my geandma started yelling at me about "How I'm only depressed cos Joey (My crush) doesn't like me back and she's sick of seeing me locked in my bedroom not wanting to do anything"
When in reality, I can care less about Joey, but I can't care any more than I do about getting back into school and seeing my friends and teachers again. And about the "me not wanting to get out" part, also not true, I wanna go out and do something I've never done and go somewhere I've never been..
What should I do?
I called my mom earlier today, she's supposedly coming over tomorrow to take me to Wild Waters all day. She does not know anything yet about my depression- she just thinks I'm 'upset'
2006-07-06 19:46:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To the second answerer, I don't care about my crush at this moment, all I wnna do is get back to school
2006-07-06 19:59:26 · update #1
You should find someone you can trust and talk to.. whether it be a friend or stranger.. even here is a start. If your crush doesn't like you back redirect your focus to someone who will like you as much as you liek them. Get out of the house. Sounds like your grandmother is just concerned about your happiness and she cares..
2006-07-06 19:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by iwannano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its oki to feel like that because ur crush doesnt show the same feelings BUT its time to get over it.. You are 16 young and beautiful im sure .. If the guy doesnt want you back then he doesnt worth your time probably.. Go out with your friends, take a walk outside and meet new people.. go to the movies and most important, smile !!
Its not worth ruining your health for someone who does not deserve it.. Girl you can do anything you want as long as you believe it.. There are many guys out there waiting for you :P just pick the right one... However i would suggest to have some time for yourself first. Take care of it and do something that really makes you happy... You should care more about yourself right now and guys come in second place..
thats good to hear :P I dont think you have depression girl .. u just need to have some fun.. im sure everything will turn out fine..
2006-07-06 19:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a good time at wild waters. depression is natural at that age. you need to talk to as many people as you can about it without bringing them down. your real friends would understand though. you could try the school councelors too.
2006-07-06 19:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Stuie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋