how do you catch your spouse if you think they are cheating?

Answer 1

if you think he's cheating, your intuition is right. never doubt the inner voice. NEVER! She won't lie to you, but he will.

The bigger question is, what will YOU do once you know? Will you stay or go?

There are many way to catch a cheat. Evidence is undeniable, but may hurt you the most. A man who cheats has already moved on from the relationship but has not told you about it. Best to give your own reasons for breaking up and not look back once you've moved on.

Answer 2

Just read all the responses and they are the stupids things I have ever heard. No wonder men are always cheating one person said it right what are you going to do when you find out he is cheating? what a stupid way to live a relationship spying on someone. First of all its women that always wanting to get married and don't know the first thing about being a spouse. and no clue on picking a man. So what you catch him after involving your friends (what a way to use a friend) buying spy equipment (what a way to throw away money) the time wasted energy wasted just leave if you think your man is cheating, just leave.

Answer 3

You dont catch him dear, You trap him and get him caught,
There are tell tale signs in every relationship of strain when people lie to each other, Look for the small clues, see if he is exhausted more often, If he shows lesser interest in you, If he or she is not attentive when you wanna say something, When you mention cheating if he acts aloof and tries to do something else to distract you, If he is working late and doesnt want you to know where and with whome excactly. Dont push any of these, do it subtly and slowly. Then come out with something that you think its ok to have an affair and let it be known both ways. You got him by his B a l l s.

Answer 4

Radio Shack has a phone recorder you can put on any extension, or you can install an extension in a closet or somewhere to hook to. Don't tell them what it's for when you buy it, because in some states it's illegal and they won't sell it to you.
See if he smells like sex when he comes home, and how often and when he showers, or if he comes home smelling like he just showered.
They are expensive but you can buy a GPS tracking device to hide in his car, then take it out and see where he's been, this will require computer software, so you may need to use someone else's computer.
It's possible you may catch him accidentally, or a 3rd party may tell you if they have seen something.

Answer 5

The basic funda why you want to know is, you love him/her but have a doubt.

If love is true, then you wouldnot like him/her to feel ashamed, atleast not in front of someone, with whom he/she is cheating.

And doubts can never be cleared, untill the heart is clear.

May be it was your mistake that your spouse is cheating, soething would have gone wrong, thats why the situation has come.

If you come to know that your spouse is cheating, the situation is going to be worse and
- if you really want to get your spouse back the love him/her so much that he/she forget the other person and is back in your arms.
- if you want revenge, then do all the tactics.

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Answer 6

Put a bug in your house phone set (transmitter that would transmit phone conversation to a remote receiver which then can be connected to a recorder. Spying is no cheap these days so get ready to spend a few thousand bucks. Radio Shack won't do ya good. Investigate online spy equipment sellers....Trust me its worth the result you will achieve.

Answer 7

go through pockets of pants used when comes home look for matches.scu through or order cell phone call records. call unrecognized #s. write down odometer reading before he leaves and when he returns = what trips??? also gas gauge tells alot. new music or unknown interest all the sudden. when conversating dont accuse use ur words wisely play the guilt card and let him know you feel insecure because.... does he go with fam or friends and doesnt cant invite u? frends he keeps u away from read his physical`language is he 2 tired a lot more???

Answer 8

Tell your husband you and your coworkers have to take an out of town class for a whole week in another state. Then when he thinks your gone he will not hide anything while you are gone. Busted.

Answer 9

Thats easy ask to take hiss cell phone fo a day in a slick kinda way.

Answer 10

Just simply observe their Behaviour, if something unusual then do some surveillance.But make it 200 % sure before doubting your other partner.