2006-07-06 19:21:48 · 3 answers · asked by archie_g24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I red writing, from him which wrote nasty things about me, and I can’t accept the fact that it was actually the things he thinks me of… Well friends exchange opinions right? Without me knowing he interpret it in a different way. My actions, my words... and to think we’re talking all the time he hasn’t tell me, what he feels. I felt betrayed and been a sucker for a long time. At first maybe he doesn’t know, but now I think he knows I red it… but still he keep on denying and acting he doesn’t know why I’m reacting weird lately. It really pisses me of.
2006-07-06 19:38:14 · update #1
I've had that type of thing happen very recently....today actually. I saw a friend's answers account, and she showed me how she had gotten a best answer. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhmQj_79_NDoLmExBZ87AW_sy6IX?qid=1006031308928 this was it. I read it, but she got off of it before i finnished. So i asked about it, and she just brushed it off. Long story short, i found out how she truly feels about me in regards to boyfriends... And a while back, I let her borrow a large sum of money. She couldn't pay me back for a while (a couple months to a year). But I didn't mind. I just let her get on her feet and get the money together. Well, turn the tables a little down the line, and now it's me who needs some time...she acts like I need to get the money to her pronto. She was getting antzy. And now, a lot of situations are occuring where her views on how things happened are VERY different to mine, and she talks down to me, like "you can't move in with me till you get a car. I don't want to tote you around forever" When she OFFERS to drive me.
What it all comes down to, is just talking things out. We'll get over this hump we're on, just like you will eventually. Just ride it out. Families fight, friends fight, lovers fight... it's okay, and it's not the end of the world. It just feels like it at the moment.
2006-07-13 15:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by mouse001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not expect anything from them like this u will never be hurt.
I used to expect from my friends a lot and i get hurt so I found out the way they are just friends for a while and each of them will go by theire selfs so do not bend at them and do not count on them.but be nice to them until they are nice to u.know this they won't stay by you forever.the sooner u accept it the better it is for u and the less u will be hurt.
2006-07-06 19:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by dark_mad_shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to elaborate, give me a situation then i can help. (It really depends on what they do)
2006-07-06 19:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by RockerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋