We had 4 1/2 months of a wonderful connection, spiritually, in every way possible. I was going to meet him when he cam home in July to Fort Wainwright. Suddenly, he just stopped everything. The calls, emails, everything. I had been "expunged" from his life like a bag of garbage and I still do not understand. I'm 40, and have a back disability but folks, I do alright with the guys, trust me...so have no clue what his hang up is or was. Just bugs me, and I'll never know why. Anyone ever have this happen?
2006-07-06 19:19:20 · 4 answers · asked by msjinx39 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Since you were so emotionally involved , you couldn't be
objective enough to see what was really going on. He obviously
has someone back home waiting for him. That is what guys do
especially ones in the military. They may fall madly in love with
you for the whole time their on tour. But when it's time to go
home, and their tour of duty is over, you better be prepared for
a rude awakening. They will usually choose going back home
instead of staying with you, where you are. They usually want
to just go back to their families and resume where they left off.
He may have really had feelings for you, but something tells me
he was using you, or he would have missed you and kept in
contact with you. This just proves you have a bigger heart than
he does...Don't let it get you down, you will meet someone
better, if your careful with your heart and don't give it away to
just anyone. Next time, make sure, he's on the same page.
2006-07-06 20:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard to figure out why this guy stopped all contact with you. There could be hundreds of reasons,Who knows ??? I have one question for you----Why did you chose the name MS Jinx for yourself ?? Everyone has a bad run of luck and move on, calling yourself that doesn't help if your down . Change you name to something up lifting and believe me, you'll feel a little better about yourself. I look at your profile and your not a bad looking lady. This is not a come on as I have a wife. Just an opinion !!!
2006-07-06 19:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he didnt make it i pray that he did but its rough over here and some times the soliders pay the price
2006-07-06 19:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on!
2006-07-06 19:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋