Looking For Advice From Open Minded People Only!?

Question

Okay, before I begin I do not need lectures on how I should change my career. This is the way I have choosen to pay for school so lets leave it at that and just give me advice on my delema I am presenting to you.
I do porn. I flew out to work for this couple in California.
I am making okay money but not like what other companys pay their girls.
It seems like an easy decision right? To just leave but in this buisness I was lucky to find safe individuals and they let me stay in thier home while I was there. They took care of me and work around my schedule.
I fear that if I leave I will end up with a foney company or get in an unsafe situation. Even if that doesn't happen what if I leave and go with a legite company but that company won't care about me like the last one did, as far as scheduling and making sure everyones tests came back negative. Also being considerate of my preferences such as no gang bangs and stuff.

I'm usually the type that knows what to do but this one has me stumped.

Answer 1

Hi Momo,
Be careful, people in this industry can be exploited and then cast off. I don't want that to happen to you, you seem like a decent person just trying to make a living. My advice to you: go to another company but please be careful not to let them force you into situations that you are uncomfortable with, try to get them to be considerate of your schedule and save as much money as you can. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

I like getting laid,look good, have almost everything in life I need but a hot woman.If you are in porn for the sex,you should just find a nice guy who wants to treat you right.There are many rich successful men ,me included who are looking for a hot doll like you.The real problem with the business,is exactly what you say,who to trust.I am not judging you at all because getting laid in a porn movie is the same thing as a couple screwing there brains out only the money changes hand.We are in the 20 century and your choice is your choice.I don't sleep around because I am worried about getting a disease.I don't have a girlfriend because I work 7 days a week and am very demanding.You maybe should start your own porn film company,why not and you can make the rules,maybe find girls thinking like you who want the same thing and pool your money.I am an entrepreneur and can make money selling,sand,ice,oil, or sex.I think you have a unique opportunity to start a new business model ,maybe in Nevada where it is legal.In any business you have to find the NICHE-YOU JUST FOUND IT-CONGRATULATIONS!good luck and e-mail me if you want some more ideas or questions,as I think your question is hard but not impossible to solve,Peter.

Answer 3

It's clearly evident you wish to remain in your current occupation, which I can understand and respect--as much as I am tempted to suggest otherwise. But you ask I don't do that, so I'll honor that as well.

This calls for some savvy diplomatic tact on your behalf. See if the couple you work for can match the offer given you by the other company. If they can, great: might not be a bad idea to have such conditions drawn into a contract, approved by your attorney and theirs. Hey, nothing personal: it's business.

See if the other company can draw up a contract too; maybe you can work in some additional reasonable conditions as well. If they agree to write such a contract: cool--see what your business attorney says and go from there.

If the other company balks at the idea; they're not worth leaving your current employers for.

Porn is an entertainment BUSINESS. And like show business: on the inside, you're going to have your "fans" and your "critics"; there's a real degree of political dynamics involved.

Either or: a savvy smart person in your profession may be resented by a few: but overall--respected by ALL.

Answer 4

You don't mention whether this particular couple has their own production business. If you are not making the same amount of money as the other girls in the industry, there could be any number of reasons...it could also be that you lack the same amount of experience, as other girls who are being more highly paid to do the same thing. It could just be that you don't have the 'right look' for a particular project, ( no reflection on your appearance) it could be that the people with whom you are curently involved simply don't have enough money to pay you the same rate as the other girls in the industry may be receiving. If you are nearly finished with school, and you feel safe working with this couple and staying in their home with them, then you may just want to consider staying put until you can complete your degree.

If that doesn't seem feasible, then you may want to try and befriend some of the other more highly-paid girls and ask them for some advice. I don't know how competitive your industry is, but they may be willing to help you out at least a little.

Best Of Luck In School~*

Answer 5

My first thought is, if the objective is to pay for school, and where you are is meeting your needs, stay there, you're comfortable. Also, before you go anywhere else, you gotta ask yourself if the urge to move is realy motivated by jealousy of what the pros, the girls who are strictly in it for the money, are making. And finally, if what you want to do is turn pro and dump school, surely there are ways to find out what people, or groups, or studios, or what the hell ever they call the outfits that make porn, are legit. Now, I've shot my kisser off about all that, especially the last part of it, and I don't have the first clue how long the list is you'd have to wade though or how ruthless the average purveyer of porn is. Good luck.

Answer 6

hey there, (so is this how ya tore your vagina in the last question of yours I answered?) man, you think you are in a safe racket.. (asking a question of that sort?) I don't care if you are a prostitute, do the porn thing.. (I'm open minded.) I wish I had the bod for doing something kinky sometimes.. lol. (I don't.. hell I'm an old mean *****..) You don't owe anybody ****, honey as far as explaining this porn thing. (Screw all that!) This is the 2lst century... I mean if you were a prostitute in the old West, you would stand a chance of 'going straight/legit.. then meeting one of your former clients' right? (I know.. I watch too many movies.. it's a common enuff theme.) I didn't check, but I bet there are a lotta bible thumpers dissing you/answering this. (Hey, call me a dumbbutt but I didn't exactly get what your 'question' was, hon?) You are honest.. a lotta college chicks pay for school this way... but like I said, don't volunteer squat! You don't owe anybody an 'excuse'.. for 'why you did it..' You wanted to! right? right! I always wanted to be a stripper (secretly.. heh heh) later- mel

Answer 7

Sometimes, in the field you're in, having something safe and being around people u trust is rare. Even though money is an option, you are in school and stress from a job could make your graduation date harder to reach and further away. U don't want to start jumping around and set yourself back from your goals. You'll make your big money once u graduate, stick w/safe and comfortable. As long as u can pay your bills and enjoy a night out every now and then, I say stay where u r comfortable.

Answer 8

Whatever makes you happy. Me myself love porn. I always wanted to be famous and have that job, but like you said you don't want to be somewhere unsafe. It's really hard to answer that question. Just do what you think is best for yourself. I only do home movies and I use to be an exotic dancer. You could try those and see if you do any better. Good Luck!

Answer 9

The porn industry takes cre of its people. I did a couple of Bi porns in Santa Fe.. And we got tested, treated great and The production was low budget, but I loved the time and the people.

PlusI got the chancxe to have sex with sexy People

Answer 10

Well, if I want to go go on with this profession, I'd look for a better paying and similarly safe place (I don't know your exact situation, but I guess you can't get into big companies, right?) BUT ONLY LEAVE WHEN FOUND IT!!!!. If you only consider it as a temporary job, I'd stay.

What's your artist name, by the way?