2006-07-06 19:06:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
This is difficult because there could be many reasons, but the question does not provide background information. Perhaps he is nervous about the lifestyle change that comes with having a child, maybe he isn't ready, or maybe he is apprehensive about this new responsibility. In any event, do what is best for you and good luck to you.
2006-07-06 19:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do we know, we don't even know your man. But if I had to guess, I would say he doesn't want to be responsible for a baby right now. Maybe you should listen to him, children are not like dolls or toys you can't just play with them when you feel like it. Kids are a lifetime obligation and deserve all of the time, love and attention you can give them. It's great to have a dependable man when you're becoming a parent but always make sure you can take care and handle the load on your own before making a serious decision like parenting. Children aren't fads, you can't change them or trade them in when you get tired.
2006-07-07 02:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Angell C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with one of the above answers. Why is this question in the 'Teen & Preteen' section? If you are a teen then maybe thats why. Having a baby when you're a teen is not such a good idea. You should wait until you're much older and can emotionally and financially support yourself and your baby. You have got plenty of years ahead of you where you can have a baby and also when your man is willing to have one. Having a baby is a big responsibility.
2006-07-07 02:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's not ready to be a parent but that baby even unborn as it maybe is living. Look at the Korean society the consider the baby to be almost a year old when it is born becuase it has been alive for the time its been in the womb. Talk to your man he's obviously having issue with it mabey he's afraid of loosing attention once the baby is born. Hope all works out
2006-07-07 02:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by millitary007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to get hooked on phonics or something- if this your level of education I don't think you should be having or raising children. Second, there are many reasons for a man to not want children. First and foremost among them is the responsibility- granted, he should have thought about that before he got you pregnant. Another common reason for not wanting to have children is the considerable cost involved. Remember, the financial obligation of a child last for 18 years or more.
It is my opinion however, that if you can't take care of this child on your own and bear this burden by yourself, you shouldn't be having children- this only goes to prove how irresponsible and uneducated you truly are.
I also object to my hard earned tax dollars being spent on people who are incapable of raising their own children. I don't work hard everyday so that you can behave like a breeding sow. There's no reason why you couldn't use birth control and no reason you can't get a job and an education. Where are your priorities in life? Surely you have other goals than to be Suzy ******* homemaker? My advice to you is to put this child up for adoption and reconsider your actions. Your behavior not only costs taxpayer money but affects the health and wellbeing of an innocent child.
If the two of you can't get even agree on the subject of having a child I find it difficult to believe that you are capable of raising one.
2006-07-07 03:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he knows he's the father....and by law, either he pays child support to both you and the child....or he might find jail time (often done in some states...perhaps yours).
Call it a hunch: but this guy I doubt will be the faithful husband/family man, sharing a house with you and the baby.
Your man wants to be free without any financial obligations enforced by law.
Be careful around this guy: he might try to harm you as an effort at having you lose the child--something he can find himself in jail and/or prison on even trying.
2006-07-07 02:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is scared that when you do have your baby your attention will go to it instead of him and maybe he dont want to be a daddy yet but he should suck it up and take care of what he helped make tell him to get over hisself and tell him yea a lot of his money will go to the ababy but get over it because he helped im sure you didnt impregnate yourself but that also might be his problem is that he dont want to help with the responsibility of taking care of a baby and he dont want to spend all that money
2006-07-07 02:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, now dont get angry, i think he was more intrested in sex, and when the baby came around he wanted no part of it
2006-07-07 02:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by thebrownsrock57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of responsibility, commitment or present living standards.
2006-07-07 02:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Dark Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuz u were a lously lay n he prolly doesnt want that for the rest of his life!!!!
2006-07-07 05:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by hunny_bunn101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋