2006-07-06 18:50:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
john j: you're not too fond of me? do you think I care? at least I'm not taking personal shots at people. I'm just trying to get comments on a random question.
I mean, I'm just very sad and lonely all the time, and my life is completely messed up, and I came up with this question, because I kind of envy people who have their lives together so early in life that they can make a choice like getting married so early.
2006-07-06 18:59:54 · update #1
no, why would i hate them?
2006-07-06 18:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by peony1418 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being that I'm 25 and have been married for almost 2 years, nope. Why would you hate people whose marriage has nothing to do with you anyway? Don't get me wrong, loads of people rush into marriage only to find out that it's not what they expected. But still, what does that have to do with you?
**Aha, more info RIGHT after I post. Go figure. :P It's easy for someone who's happily married to tell you not to worry & to be patient. Don't worry. Be patient. Lots of people don't find "the one" til they're older in life, and lots of them end up having uber wonderful marriages (my aunt comes to mind). I get the envy, but the hate's not going to help you any. You'll just end up alone AND bitter.
2006-07-07 02:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Minkus, I am sorry your envy is making you lonely and sad. In case you didn't notice most of the questions and answers in this section indicate how much work and compromise even good marriages are. Not everyone who gets married in their 20s have their lives together, but work at marriage to make it good. I also know several people getting divorced while in their 20s. You have to find a way to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with anyone else. "The best things in life are worth waiting for." "You are only as old as you feel."
2006-07-07 02:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jill M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hate people who marry the first person they think they fall in love with
2006-07-07 01:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by jedi 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most people get married in their 20s why hate them?
2006-07-07 02:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that's a dumb question. Why HATE anyone period. What difference does it make if they are in their 20's or 50's? I married at 17. Now THAT was dumb.
2006-07-07 01:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate people who think they have to find someone to marry at a certain age, or avoid marriage cause it is too early in their plan. If it is a healthy relationship and both people are firmly situated in their lives, as well as know themselves; than marrying in your twenties is fine.
2006-07-07 01:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by nukecat25 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There no reason to hate them just because there in their 20s...
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2006-07-07 01:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. My hubby and I met when we were ten years old. We were married when we were both 20. We've been married for seven years, have three children, own our home, finished post secondary education, and are really enjoying life. What could be better!
2006-07-07 01:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kristine M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Man, I'm 26 and got engaged yesterday. Totally wasn't aware that people hated folks like me. Why?
2006-07-07 01:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Urban Zen Master 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
as opposed to what? do you think 20s is too young? because many of my friends are getting married when they're like 22. i'm glad you see things my way.
2006-07-07 01:52:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋