how does it feel when someone fall in love?

Answer 1

Like absolute Bliss. You feel safe and happy, like nothing can hurt you. Except for the one that you love.

Answer 2

it's wonderful.. coz if it hurts u most of the time, it's not love..

here's some example:
when he/she's doing something good to u, how small or unimportant it is, u will be happy all day long. when u're with him/her, u'll feel safe and comfortable. and this is the most true feelings if u fall in love with someone: u only want the best for him/her, even if it's not with you.

well, that's based on my experience.. i've ever been in love, i think.. ^^,..

Answer 3

Well, when you fall in love, you start getting nervous around him/her, until you know she/he loves you too. You start hesitating and you feel unnaturally happy around him/her! It's a real weird feeling. Trust me.

Answer 4

Falling in Love



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Go to the Love & Relationships Center Index to learn more. Why Do We Fall in Love?
By Amy Bowles Reyer, Ph.D.


"It is better to have loft and lost than to never have loft at all." — Groucho Marx
Everyone does it at one time or another but why? We're talking about falling in love. Professor Arthur Aron from State University of New York at Stonybrook, has been exploring the dynamics of what exactly happens when two people are falling in love:

Q: What motivates people to seek out love?

A: Our primary motivation as human beings is to expand the self and to increase our abilities and our effectiveness. One of the ways we accomplish this is through our relationships with other people. We have learned in our research that it is important to feel that you have the ability to be an effective person, especially in our relationships.


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Q: How does this theory of self-expansion explain the process of falling in love?

A: Usually, we fall in love with a person that we find attractive and appropriate for us, but also someone who demonstrates that they are attracted to us. This creates a situation where a great opportunity is open to us for self-expansion. The fact that they are attracted to us offers a significant opportunity — when we perceive this, we feel a surge of exhilaration!


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Q: Does it always work this way?

A: No, an interesting exception to this occurs if we feel badly about ourselves. The process gets thrown off if we can't believe that another persons finds us attractive — like the Groucho Marx joke where we don't want to belong to a club that would have us for a member. We tend to miss out on opportunities for falling in love if we don't feel good about ourselves.


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Q: What conditions are best for meeting someone and falling in love?

A: When you meet someone under conditions that are highly arousing — a political demonstration, turbulence on a plane, a stimulating performance — a time when the body is stirred up and excited, we tend to experience attraction at a heightened level. This effect is well documented but the explanations for it are very controversial. I tend to believe that we come to associate the arousal of the situation with this person and our own self-expansion.


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Q: When do we fall in love?

A: Contrary to what most people think, the statistics show that most people fall in love with someone that they have known for a while. People only report falling in love quickly about 1/3 to 40 percent of the time. Of course, this varies from culture to culture. Falling in love happens differently between cultures but it does occur in most cultures.


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Q: How does our appearance factor into the equation of falling in love?

A: This is interesting; we have found that if you are very unattractive, it can hurt you a lot in forming romantic relationships. However, being attractive doesn't help that much.


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Q: How do you explain that?

A: We have found that two important characteristics, kindness and intelligence, are extremely important in the process of falling in love. And attractiveness is not connected to these things. These two attributes are things that people learn about someone from knowing them over time. Intelligence is important in all aspects of life, especially in love. But kindness is the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship.


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Answer 5

It feels totally out of control. You get focused on her like a homing missile.

Answer 6

its as if nothing in the wolrd matters. you feel invincible and all you can think about is that other person. all you want is to be with them and see them happy. you have a reason to smile everyday, even when your world could be crumbling around you. nothing compares

Answer 7

you feel like your the beautiful person alive at that moment and u feel nervouse and happy all at the same time

Answer 8

your stomach flutters.Your voice sounds strange. Your legs wobble. You always think about them and spend as much time as you can with them.

Answer 9

it is really unexplainable. amazing, butterflies in your stomach. Can not think or do anything. Miss him as soon as he lives. Think you could never live with out him.

Answer 10

Its wonderful. Its like you can conquer the world.Thats how I feel.