I have been modeling since before I met my fiance. We have been together for 4 years now. Right now hes out at sea and I am home taking care of the house we dont have kids. He has ben okay with me doing pagents and commercials here and there since weve been together but I recently mentioned that I was thinking about signing a contract with a bigger company and I would be away for 2 months straight and periodically for about yr after that and he got very upset.-"....I don’t like the way it looks I don’t need a relationship where we’re both gone I need someone there 4 me holdin things down you’re tryna pack up and go pose for picture only god knows where and u want me to thnk evrythings cool it wont b believe me I don’t want to go down this road" I dont no what to say! Its always been my dream to make it n the modeling world and he knows that but I am completely stuck! should i screw up a perfectly happy relationship for a life long dream or suck it up and be a stay at home navy wife?
2006-07-06 18:11:34 · 8 answers · asked by mrstaken_haynes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the contract is worth a LOT of money and yes my relationship has been a very happy one for the past four years in all truthfulness it seems i have a perfect man God loving man but then there is this...
2006-07-06 18:27:46 · update #1
His reply:I love u baby and u rite I shouldn’t have said some of that stuff if u wanna do ya stuff I'm jus gon hav to deal wit it but them punks on that advice site can suk a *toe* I no how I feel about my woman and I know I'm not tryna keep u locked up in tha house I'm tha one who helpd u get ya first job maybe I'm a little scared of u gettn caught up in all dat crap in the modeling industry that destroys most of the other girls (sex, drugs, etc) and basically sellin they soul to b a model if u make a promise to me to stay true to me and where u came from I can sleep easy at nite and I guess I feel better now I know wats been gettn at me I love u baby
2006-07-07 16:13:25 · update #2
Your frustration is understandable. I suggest you strike a compromise and carry on with the modelling you've been doing. That's not being stuck at home is it? You're still struting your stuff, and you'd be with the man you love.
At least that's my point of view.
2006-07-06 18:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's a neanderthal or he has some insecurities about you running off with someone else if you were to go away and do this modeling gig.
Life does not always afford us easy choices, and this sounds like one of those times for you.
What I'm confused about is, you're his fiance, but he's already treating you like a wife...one he expects to be submissive and obedient at that. If you think he's not hearing your heart now, it is only going to be worse when he "has" you officially. Something to ponder.
2006-07-07 01:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are responsible for your own life and not his, if this is your dream go for it, but you will likely have to find a new relationship, however look at all the guys out there, who would die to date a real model. You do what it is you need to do for yourself. Afterall thats what hes doing. Good Luck
2006-07-07 01:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...think of it from his point of view. hes away defending our country and keeping us safe and u want to just wanna leave for 3 months "periodically" and then a YEAR?! he loves u and cares bout where the relationship might go. which is more important to u...the love of a man, someone u can go to in times of need, and a warm bed. or going around modeling, cash, possibly losing yr husband then only getting men who love u for yr body and or $$.
to me...the love of a man is the most important thing in the world.
2006-07-07 01:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he knew about your modeling when he met you so he knew what he was getting into. If he really cared for you he would want you to follow your dream. You aren't stuck, you can walk anytime you want. As for screwing up a perfectly happy relationship, does it really sound "perfectly happy" if you have to give up your dream? I don't' think so.
2006-07-07 01:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is afraid of losing you. Having been in the military sometimes the thing that gets you through is knowing that your wife is at home thinking of you and making sure everything is taken care of.
2006-07-07 01:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So it's ok for him to do what he wants but it's not ok for you to. Tell him to hit the road or marrying him and live the rest of your life regretting not fulfilling your dream. He's made it obvious he's not with you on this one.
2006-07-07 01:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is a gay fag! do that girl and make that money!
2006-07-07 01:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by carebear_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋