Do you let bygones be bygones or do you hold a grudge?

Answer 1

I can hold a grudge forever

Answer 2

I let bygones be bygones. It may be humbling to forgive and forget but I feel a whole lot of better when I do. Besides, holding a grudge can be so taxing and negative. I rather be positive when it comes to living my life. :)

Answer 3

I let the bygones be gone.Holding a grudge is bad for my health.

Answer 4

I would like to say I don't hold grudges, but I do. I am working on it though, so maybe it will make me a stronger woman, I hope so.

Answer 5

that depends on the situtation, but I try to let things go because holding a grudge usually only hurts the one holding it

Answer 6

That would depend on the nature or severity of the action used against you. Something of no consequence, or life altering event- let it go. For a more serious offense, remember and beware. No blood/no foul I've found to serve my own situations well- metaphorically speaking.

Answer 7

hold a grudge, memory like an elephant

Answer 8

if i didnt start it,then hell will break loose...but if i started it (sound familiar???) then i would have to back off....

and once again,when i got my vengence,i was only trying to attack you,as you may have already read,not anything to do with your child...that would be just evil...i could never do that...but i will attack other ways to get at someone that might hrt in a different way...such as ragging on fred in a public forum or whatever!

but when you asked this question,why didnt you ask the whole truth to it? why just skip over what you did? trying to get pitty i assume!

Answer 9

I hold a grudge.

Answer 10

I've never held a grudge in my life.