I am a very eligible bachelor. i have my own place money and a car but i have yet to find a woman. Need tips.?

Answer 1

Are you so desperate looking for a wife? Then pray for this. Refer Matt. 7:7

Answer 2

Where do you live? How old are you?
I have been single for a while myself.
I figure I am still alone because I haven't found the quality of person who I am attracted to.
Tips?
get on the Yahoo personals
go places where quality people go...art galleies, librarys, concerts.
Don't go after absolute perfection......beauty is more than skin deep.
Be awear when you are in public...lets say the grocery store. You see an attractive woman, check out her ring finger.....ah no ring.....then you make small talk "do you know where the bread it:"

Actually I have no clue....if I did I wouldn't be home alone.
I date often.......I don't need quanity, I need quality.

If you figure it out...finding a good match. Let me know

Answer 3

How do you define "very eligible"? Sorry, but to me it sounds like desparate bachelor. Money can't buy you love, and these things won't matter to someone who loves you. Where have you looked? What relationships have you had? Why didn't they work? You may have to ask yourself some tough questions, but I think you ought to get to what you really want -setting long term goals for your future- with or without a woman, and learn to love yourself first.

Answer 4

Relationships aren't about "money, a car and a place" relationships are based on interaction between 2 people. So have someone you know to be truthful tell you what you need to work on to attract someone, are you too stiff, formal, loud, anxious, obnoxious, do you think money is all people are after? there are so many things that could be setting you "apart." Then again, you just may need to "get out there" I don't have enough facts to tell. Just be yourself and try to TALK and have fun. That's why people go out. Not for sex or to get drunk but to enjoy themselves. Don't over-impress, don't "correct" someone else, if they mispronouce something, who cares? In other words, try not to turn them off or kill their buzz. Do that and you'll have a great time, just be comfortable.

Answer 5

Give up and stop trying . Sounds like bad advice but it isn't.

Maybe your putting too much effort in I know I was in the same position and just when I came to peace with the obvious fact that I wasn't going to meet anyone -bang- I've heard this from a lot of people -

Answer 6

Do you act needy or desperate towards women? Are you pushy? Do you flaunt what you have? Those are some of the big turn offs for most women. Aside from that, its just time and patience. Go out, live your life, enjoy it, and somewhere along the way, you are very likely to meet somebody.

Answer 7

you cant be overly nice. You cant be a raging asshole. not all women are the same. Also don't follow women like a little puppy dog, they hate that. If you want to find a good woman you have to look for them in everyday life, not bars, clubs, etc.. i don't know if you will listen to this or not but good luck.

Answer 8

She will find you. You don't want to be constantly searching for a partner, you just might end up settling for any old body. Try doing different activities that interest you and you might meet someone who you're compatible with. The more active you are, the easier it would be to meet someone.Good luck!

Answer 9

Oviously hanging out here at yahoo answering someone else's questions won't get you anywhere!

Get incolved in a group activity, something that you like. You'll meet people with the same interests that way.

It can be anything...dancing classes...art classes...sailing...etc.

Answer 10

You think those things are important but they are not. Be nice, be kind, be a gentleman. Be that kind of guy. Enroll in a class at community college where you'll see women over a period of time. Get to know one....and BINGO...there you are.