We have been together for two years and more and more I'm not wanting to have sex with him. I dream of having sex with another man. He likes having sex in the morning but I hate it. It seems the more I tell him the more he tries. I also don't like his oral sex his facial hair gets in the way. Please understand I love him for the man he is because he works hard to provide for myself and my kids that aren't his. But I worried that once I finish school and can support myself I will not want him around anymore or I'll cheat. this would be totaly unfair to him
2006-07-06 16:57:24 · 6 answers · asked by unsatified 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are right about what will happen and no it isn't fair to him.
You talk about relationship but never mention husband. I guess you live together. If so you have no ties and he doesn't either except finacial perhaps.
Just because you love him is not good enough for a good strong relationship. If a woman is not attracted to a man she will never enjoy sex with him and that is not doing him any favors.
What caused you to loose this feeling for him? Time...He does things you can't stand.....he is a poor lover.....what?
You must answer that and then go from there. I would say your future together does not look good. What you are saying is as far as your concerned you are approaching the time when it will be like living with your brother. You love him but can't stand to think of him that way.
Who will you be hurting then? Both of you.
2006-07-06 17:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, all I can is that you dont love him, you cant love somebody and not be sexually attracted to him. Sex is not the most important part of a relationship or marriage, but it is fundamental, so just think it real good, cuz to me it seems that you're only with him cuz you need him, not cuz you love him. Nothing is forever, not even love, maybe you loved him, but now its over. So dont kill yourself over it and give yourself a break, whatever's gonna happen its gonna happen, and if you think its unfair to him, then let him go as soon as you think you can take care of your kids, dont let more time pass by...Good Luck!
2006-07-06 17:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not attracted sexually to him it's just not going to work. Sex isn't the only important thing, of course, but without some kind of spark in that department it's very difficult to make the relationship work.
2006-07-06 17:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by monkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him..."i want to break up...if he asks WHY?" just say it is not working out"....and leave it at that!!! some men are sooo stupid...they don't take hints very well...sorry! he is already out the door!!!
2006-07-06 17:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless sex is unimportant to you,(and to him) you r looking 4 trouble
2006-07-06 17:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by ANSWERMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the words GOLD DIGGING SLUT mean anything?
2006-07-06 17:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋