I have a woman who swears she can't live without me, but continually picks fights. She pushes me away, then pulls me back with sex. I love her, but.... damn. Enough already.
2006-07-06 16:49:30 · 8 answers · asked by Fred J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
As a woman, myself; I have constantly wondered the same thing sometimes. I can honestly say that sometimes I am totally confused by members of my own sex! How's that for strange?!
I think that women like to argue so much because they feel that everybody 'owes' them something because of the years of discrimination we've endured over the centuries. Whether that is true or not, I find myself a little repulsed by women who always have to be 'right' all the time , & never take any blame for thier actions because they can play the 'sexism' card & win every time. I think that that is the kind of attitude that has continued to keep holding us back after all these years!
In my opinion, I think your girlfriend needs to make up her mind & stop acting like a child whenever she knows that maybe, for once in her life, she may not be always 'right'. My advice to you would be to ditch this self-absourbed LITTLE GIRL & find yourself a WOMAN who can take responsibility for her own faults, & not blame men for thier own inferiority complexes.
Ladies, this is the 21st century; wake up! you have everything now, stop trying to milk the Sex card just to get out of admitting your own faults & accepting the concequences for your actions!
2006-07-06 17:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren C.: Led-head 4 (∞) 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
She may be picking the fights, but you're taking the bait. It takes 2 to argue, so both parties are at fault.
If she is REALLY that bad, don't go back to her. Sex is not a good excuse- there are a million fish in the sea and you can find someone else.
2006-07-06 23:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants you to break up with her just so she can play the victim in the relationship. Tell her if she can't respect you and keep picking fights with you than she needs to find someone else to pick fights with, like her mother.
2006-07-06 23:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jacci 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just argumentive. If you really love her then you'll work it out! If not, then it's time to go. And that's the bottom line. You should tell her how you feel about it.
2006-07-06 23:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Caffiene Junkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think all women like to argue. Some have to be right, others like me - just want a resolution to the problem. If there is one.
2006-07-06 23:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her about how you feel. Tell her that you are getting fed up about it already. It may be true that we love to argue but we are also good when it comes to listening and understanding. But, remember, talk to her in your most gentle way and do not heap blames when you do it. :)
2006-07-06 23:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jo Ann 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's probebly a control freak like me. Thank God my husband is also my best friend and he tells me when enough is enough.
2006-07-06 23:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by lamp062400 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Something to do!
They just HAVE to try and win...
2006-07-06 23:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by wherestheid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋