I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for about 9 months. We both really love each other alot. Since I have been going out with him he has always mentioned how he would like to have about 6 kids. Well he all ready has a daughter named Tara. She's about 1 yrs old. I must admit that he takes good care of her. He buys her things and he also picks her up about 4 days out of the week . Lately he has been bringing up the idea of me geting pregant by him. I'm not ready to have a child right now because I'm in college and I would like to get married and settled down first before I even have kids. I've told him before that i dont want any kids right now and I dont plan on having any unitl about 5 more years down the road. How could I possibly get this threw his head that I dont want kids right now without hurting his feelings!! Someone please help? What would you do in this situaion? Has this ever happened to you?
2006-07-06 16:49:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are asking strangers on the internet for advice on this subject, you are not mature enough to have a child. Why is he no longer with Tara's mother?? What will you do when your child is Tara's age, and he is having another baby with someone else? Can he afford to support these children?
Go to the library and study. Go to class. Go anywhere this guy isn't. And whatever you do, don't go having a baby with him.
2006-07-06 17:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by onenonblonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trash his feelings, Honey, and run away as fast as you can. If this guy is more interested in having babies than your needs, and you submit to his wishes, you are very likely in for a lifetime of broken dreams, dirty diapers, financial ruin, and heartache like you can't even imagine. Run! Run! Run! Now!
2006-07-06 23:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by magnoliasandjazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've made a great decision by waiting to have kids. If he does love you he will wait until you are ready. If he can't accept your decision, then he is not the man for you.
2006-07-06 23:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy the jerk a Pogo Stick shaped like a dildo, unless you are a welfare whore!
2006-07-06 23:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by yahoooo reject 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋