am in lov wit dis gurl but she got feelinds 4 a ***** who dont care 4 her wat do i do
2006-07-06 16:43:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Honey, you not only have girl problems, you've got major spelling problems too!
If you care for her, tell her. You can't change how someone feels but at least you can be honest about your own feelings. Good luck.
2006-07-06 16:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jarvis,
Christina Aguilera wrote a song that is so appropriate right now that was called "What A Girl Wants" and it says "they say if you love something let it go, if it comes back, it's yours and that's how you know...it's for keeps, it's for sure."
So, keep it real, would you in all honesty, want a girl who's totally unattractive physically to you to keep trying you, knowing you;ve already done read her the Riot Act (get gone and don't come back)? I don't think so.
I am a woman, and I say, get someone who appreciates you for you, now she don't have to be the prettiest, finest, or flyest-dresser but if you get along with her and she THINKS you ARE the Cutest, flyest, and most decent guy, that IS What matters, you want a girl that cannot do without YOU, not someone who thinks you are 2nd best or not even worth it at all.
Keep your spirits up, you are young, be patient you have time...(Heck I am only in my mid-20's myself) but you will find someone who appreciates you if remember not to just go for looks, but also how the girl treats you is VERY important, she needs to respect you-so going with/Flirting with/hanging alone with other dudes, "ain't Kosher!" as they say!
Keep your head up! and to take your mind off it all visit a very cool website (http://ybf.blogspot.com/) that is funny and entertaining by a young lady who is not only in law school but also is apparently an intern in D.C.
Please note that, most of the sucessful engaged/married men you will see at that website have women that appreciate them and yet are sucessful not because they look good or have a "man with money" but because they love and respect each other...that is what really matters!
Hope this helps!
2006-07-06 23:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, realize that she'll probably never matter to you. People use the word "love" too wantonly. If she likes a total jerk better than you, think about it. This girl is probably really stupid and not worth your time.
2006-07-07 03:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one get some better english skills. And two, wait it out, sounds like you're young enough that she'll eventually change her mind.
2006-07-06 23:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jacci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be honest. Leave her alone! I understand, that you have feelings for her. You can find someone else. Anyways, in the end it never works.
2006-07-07 00:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by Micka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time it will tell. Trust u wont be able to take her specially if she wont leave the ****** for someone better. He has her wraped sprung , whatever u want to call it.
2006-07-13 20:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first just try to talk to her and do stuff with her but if she decides not to be with you just find a girl who really likes you and cares for you not someone who is a total *****
2006-07-07 01:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to school and get an education so you sound like you are literate.
2006-07-06 23:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mane ive had so many gurl prollems ima help ya out,mane u need to tell her that who she w/aint rite
good luck
2006-07-06 23:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by juggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, ask her out, be nice to her, if she rejects you she's not worth it. I tell you cuz i'm a girl. Good Luck.
2006-07-06 23:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by elipra91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋