o0ok... theres a whole story... theres this guy i met like a couple fo months ago through some friends.. well i just started tlaking to him a couple of days ago and he seems nice and all but... (theres always a but lol) 1st. hes only 17 (im 19) 2nd. he kinda acts imature sometimes and makes me feel wierd and stupid and... 3rd. he told me that he has herpies b/c he was a kisisng his ex that had a cold-sore on her lip... (idn if thats true or not answer that question too if you can lol) so... i of course have these doubts and also plus im goign to college in the fall far away from where i live too so yeha and i wanna start a new life... but he tells me hes so into me and that he likes me sooo much (and we havent even like gone out yet or dated) so i mean what should i do? i told him about my doubts and he says that im out of my mind and that i shouldnt judge before even experiencing a date.. idn would you just give it a try with him or just tell him its better if were friends?..help!!!!!
2006-07-06 16:31:18 · 5 answers · asked by simplypink_ox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldn't start anything if you are going to be going away to college. I did read that yes you can contract herpes through saliva if the person is having an outbreak. That's just another reason to not date him. I do give him credit though for being upfront with you about having herpes.
2006-07-06 16:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Your 19? Sounds like little kid drama. Key points in your story:
1. He makes you feel weird and you are embarrassed by him being immature
2. He has herpes
3. Your moving away
4. You don't really know him
5. He is young and your out of his league
Do any of those things sound good to you? You didn't mention anything good, so I would say this is a waste of time.
Please do yourself a favor and find someone in college, because I know just from your story that you don't like him.
2006-07-06 16:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by blondieinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STDs are a serious thing. Remember that he will always have Herpies and if you are intimate with him you will probably contact the Herpies as well and will have it for the rest of your life. Is he worth it?
2006-07-06 16:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out and move on. College will offer you a whole other world of people to meet and explore.
2006-07-06 16:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should forget about him, and spend the next few months before you go to college (!?) concentrating on improving your writing and spelling.
2006-07-06 16:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by id 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋