she is very uncomfortable , it is 3 months ( and she is also 3 months preg) is it very bad if I lay on her belly? that is theonly way she is comfortable or better say she used to be , now she is more in to baby than me and ....
help?
2006-07-06 16:27:58 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well, she might feel unattractive, you have to take the initative and tell her she looks sexy, beautiful, etc. You might not want to lay on her stomach, after a while it's just painful and makes you want to pee. Try different positions like her on top or something like that. Just tell her that you're here for her and that she's still as beautiful as ever.
2006-07-06 16:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jacci 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It really all depends on the woman at what point in pregnancy she gets uncomfortable. Some women never do and some are uncomfortable from the beginning.
If she has any concerns regarding the safety of the baby a talk with the doctor at her next appointment should ease her mind. Normally you wouldn't want to lay on her belly. You can have sex missionary style, just try not to put pressure on her tummy. That can be very uncomfortable. I have delivered four children and my sexual appetite was different with each.
Explore other sexual positions and most of all lift her up emotionally. Tell her how beautiful she looks and tell her the things that you love about her. Often times women will just say that it is uncomfortable because of the way they feel about their bodies. So in a sense they are uncomfortable.
Good luck, I hope your sex life gets back on track!!
2006-07-06 16:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by MomofAEI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a example of what the child is like in utero. Take a jelly jar, fill it with water then crack an egg in it. Put the top on then shake the jar. The yolk will not break. A child is very protected in the uterus. She may lay on her belly though maybe uncomforable.
You may have sex unless the doctor advises not to. And it is normal to start being jealous or uneasy because of the new attention of the baby. Babies take time from lots of things. Get use to it.
2006-07-06 16:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by Genivieve G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is that uncomfortable for her already, maybe she should see the dr? Sometimes, in the first trimester of pregnancy, a womans sex drive is less than desirable. Usually it picks up in the second trimester.3-6 monthes. It is perfectly safe for her and baby for you guys to be having intercourse. Try not to feel so left out, sometimes a pregnancy can be a huge thing for a woman, try to be as much a part of it as you can, you and your wife will bond more, and she will feel like this is an experience for you too, which it is!!
2006-07-06 16:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by nellieb_959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself!
Before your wife can think about you she has to know you've at least thought of HER needs! How about trying a different position? It is obvious she'll no longer enjoy having you on top of her. You may try doggy style, spooning, having her lay on her back and place one leg over your shoulder. You may also try some foreplay before you actually get into the sex part because at this point you'll have to work her up into it.
If that doesn't work than again, get over yourself. Think that all you did was the enjoyable part, now, she has to carry this baby for 9 months and it's not going to be fun...for either of you. So, instead of thinking of yourself so much...stop and think about your wife and what she's going through.
2006-07-06 16:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by bitto luv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, that baby didn't get there by itself, you helped, so quit crying about it. Second, the fact you are more concerned with your gratification than her comfort, marks you as a juvenile-minded, selfish little punk, and means she will probably end up with two kids to raise, you and the one she's having. Lastly, if I were her, and even if I wasn't pregnant, I would never have sex with you again for the fact you disrespected her enough to air your whiny concerns in a public forum. Sex is to be an intimate act between two ADULTS, and it is understood by ADULTS, it is to be private. You are not much of a husband, you probably will suck as a father, and I know you suck as a real man. Truth be known, you are not looking for a solution, which would be for you to grow up and get a pair, but you are looking for justification to sleep around while she is sexually incompasitated. I hope she wakes up, dumps your selfish, sorry butt, and finds a real man to step in, step up, and help raise the child properly.
2006-07-06 16:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone else is being so kind to not say the truth.
Get over yourself. She's more into the baby than you? Yeah? And? Either give her a break or shove a watermelon up your rear and see how you like it.
If she's only 3 months in and you're already resentful of that baby, God help that momma.
2006-07-06 16:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot hurt the baby by laying on her stomach at 3 months, it is very protected. She may not want to have sex now because of the hormonal imbalances that pregnancy causes. Wait a few months and other hormones will kick in and cause her to want to be sexually active. Make sure and tell her she is beautiful as she may start to feel fat and not want to have sex because of her low self esteem.
2006-07-06 16:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is not good for her to lay on her belly cause that will make too much pressure on the baby. if she tells the doctor he will ask her to sleep on her left side so it makes good blood circulation to the baby. about having sex,if she is not that comfortable i tell u from now plz wait tell she gets 6 month or more cause she is still in early pregnancy and that may lead to misscarage. at 7-9 month the doctor will ask u to have sex so she deliver easely. congrats on her pregnancy.
2006-07-06 16:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by sasa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are more things you can do beside laying on her belly. Ever heard of ********? Hand Job? Or Spoon position? Or doggy?
As long as doctor say can, you can. Go check with Doctor if it is safe for her to do it, then read up more on sex during pregnancy. For me, I have my fun all the way. . . yes, I am serious.
2006-07-06 22:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Melvin C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push it too hard. My wife was a bit like that at first, but it turned out to be more to do with the fact that she was feeling insecure about her body. Try make her feel comfortable about the extra pounds and you'll get your reward. And it's not a good idea to have her on her belly, she should be on her back. It get's easier dude, good luck to you.
2006-07-06 16:31:46 · answer #11 · answered by Ben C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋