i understand he has to pay his half of the bill's and rent but we live with my brother and his gf and my bro takes his gf out to eat everyday.and i feel like its not fair i feel jealous.
2006-07-06 16:24:40 · 8 answers · asked by lizzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't be. I go out with other men. Try it.
2006-07-06 16:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there are more bills than there is money. You have to find out if that is the case. You could help pay for going out, or cook something for your boyfriend. Or maybe he doesn't like to go out.
It might be too much for him to deal with. Some people feel funny ordering or trying to get something from a waiter. Maybe he had a bad experience?
But I would want to find out first and then figure out what you should do. You shouldn't feel jealous. Your brother is his own person, & your boyfriend has his own good traits. Just don't get too nuts about it. I'm sure it will work out.
2006-07-06 23:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by fran c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is the perfect Bf otherwise, then you might want to let the not going out to eat slide.
Otherwise, he does not look like such a good Bf. It's always amazing the stuff that women put up with. I take my Gf out all the time, like most other guys...it's part of a normal relationship. Yet there are theas slug guys, who don't...yet the women just stay with to them, like a leech....and get all depressed. If that sounds like you....dump him.
If you really want to 'save' the relationship....you could always offer to pay when you go out to eat(it's the 21st century).
2006-07-06 23:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy with the way this guy treats you then maybe it's time to consider parting company. Maybe you could get him to take you out if you split the bill with him. You can also do other things that don't cost anything. Go to the park and take a nice walk, go watch the sunset. If money truely is the issue, you can do other things.
2006-07-06 23:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my bf dont go out to eat all that often and we live with his mom and brother, we both have bills and rent too and its kinda hard to do the dinner thing all the time. have you confronted him about this? i would do that first but don't get angry with him. maybe stay home and cook dinner together that has more meaning than someone waiting on you at a restaurant. or make it a set thing to where you always go out to eat 2times a month no matter what. trust me it will all get better if you ask him about this. :)
2006-07-06 23:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by sarisle77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moral of the story is.....don't go for a stingy guy, a poor guy and an uninteresting guy. Maybe you should look for someone else. Your guy is not such a catch.
2006-07-06 23:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO out with other poeple,or double with ur bro and his gf...use SEX as a weapon......lol...tell him he aint getting any till he takes u out and wines and dines u.....lol i bet he'll be takin u out all the time then.hehehe
2006-07-06 23:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be depressed sweetie! Screw that bastard and leave him. The very least he should be doing is taking you out to Shoneys!
2006-07-06 23:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋