There's this woman that I fooled around with a couple of weeks ago. I found out she was married and decided to not see her anymore. We live in a small city, so it is sometimes hard to avoid running into people. I work out at a different gym now. But last night I saw her at the restraunt that I was eating at. She was alone. She actually came and sat with me. I figured it was probably coincidence, so I just kind of talked a little bit. As I was walking out toward my truck, I noticed she was parked right next to it. She tried to give me a kiss, but I bolted and got out of there. There have been other situations when I bump into her 'coincidentally.' How do I avoid this? I would file a restraining order but I don't want anymore people to know about this. I just want her to leave me alone.
2006-07-06 15:42:53 · 16 answers · asked by Thomas K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her shes got a husband and you dont want her and she need to leave you alone before you get a restraining order agianst her or just simply tell her to f_ck off
2006-07-06 15:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Think deeply about this as the consequences can be serious. her husband could get violent, she could hurt your reputation and there is no telling what evil lurks in her heart.
If avoiding her does not work I'd call the police and make out a report for stalking. List each follow (like the restaurant). If the cops don't scare her away you are in trouble, but at least you have a paper trail.
2006-07-06 15:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by IPYRAMUS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to leave you alone but do get a restraining order if she doesn't. People like this can be dangerous. You may want to stay home for awhile or do things in other cities. And beware your phone messages. My nephew's ex got a friend at the phone company to lift his code to call and get messages and she was listening to all of them.!!!!! Be careful!
2006-07-06 15:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be direct with her about your feelings. You must tell her that you don't want to be involved with her anymore. If she keeps it up, you may have to resort to the law. Of course, you could move far far away and that may stop her, but that is bound to be costly and raise eyebrows depending on what she does after. In the future, I would avoid married women like the plague.
2006-07-06 15:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her... NO. Women do not like rejection. Start dating someone else or tell her you are in love with another woman. It will hurt her, but she needs to leave you alone. If that does not work change your phone number and move away before she kills you.
2006-07-06 15:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you apply for a restraining order it's between you, her and the courts.
you could threaten to tell her husband about you and her if she don't go away and leave you alone.
2006-07-06 15:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Police!
2006-07-06 15:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you have Herpes and were too much of a coward to confess it to her earlier. Tell her there's stil a chance she doesn't have it because you haven't had a flare up recently but you couldn't live with yourself if you infected her with it too.
That's GOT to work!!!
2006-07-06 16:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by city_boy_36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you will call her ghusband then if that dont work call him cause itf you hide it and he finds out he will think of it as disrespect but it you telkl him before everyone finds out and let him know it stopped when you found out he might not kill you
2006-07-06 15:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by kartoon529 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to mcdonalds and order 6 big mac then when she stared to eat them walk out the back door.lol
2006-07-06 15:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋