A job that pays enough that you can support yourself and pay for things for her sometimes to make her feel like you can take care of her. It is also important that your job is not just some job, but a career with direction - so that you're not asking this same question and in just some job when you're 39.
A car depends really on your situation. If you live in a urban metro where walking or the metro are primary modes of transportation, then no. But if you live somewhere that requires wheels to get anywhere, odds are you'll need a car to land a girl. You can't take her to dinner on the back of a bicycle. A motorcycle that has room for a passenger is okay if you think you'll find girls who dig bikes (but this does narrow your options).
2006-07-06 15:46:32
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answered by ladyblues80 2
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well, u shouldnt really need a job or car to care for someone, and have them care for you... however, u should be able to support yourself, and perhaps a car is a convienent thing to own. maybe a place of your own is more important than the actual vehicle, bc honestly, the gf could very well transport the two of you if need be... but, us ladies tend to be a bit curious as to why a grown man is not living on his own or supporting himself. but, dont worry sweetie, the rite one will come along when least expected, so just sit back and relax, she's prolly wondering about you at this very moment!!!
2006-07-06 15:50:32
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answered by Anonymous
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You don't need a great job to get a girlfriend but it helps if you plan on keeping her. Yes, a car is a must.
2006-07-06 15:41:23
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answered by NONAME 3
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It's more of how stable you are that attracts the best women for long relationships. If you only want to lure with money you may not get what you are looking for other than short term and shallow relationships. Get a 'good' job and be smart with your money. Get out then and be social, be yourself. The rest will fall into place.
2006-07-06 15:44:16
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answered by thewildeman2 6
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I've been looking at your questions and it seems to me that you could be a hedge-fund billionaire who drives the Batmobile and you'd still have problems with women.
The "trick" to girls is to treat them the way they want to be treated, not the way your man-brain assumes they want to be treated.
1995 World Series of Poker winner Dan Harrington writes "The worst mistake a poker player can make is mistaking perception for reality." It's the same thing even away from the table. Just because you think something is a certain way does not mean that it is. Catch my drift?
2006-07-06 15:42:29
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answered by wrathpuppet 6
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Depends on where you live. If you live in NY, or any other place where public transportation is more common then no, but here in San Diego, a car is a MUST!
2006-07-06 15:43:31
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answered by Tobey lee 1
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If you meet the right person she proabably wont care what job you have and if you have a car
.However if its going to make happier to have a car (much more freedom) and get a good job, that you enjoy, you should do it.
2006-07-06 15:43:02
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answered by Nemo 3
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well you totally need a hot car, babes are all about the cars... i bit of cash behind it will help. if your a looker just a done up commadore willl do... but skylines are chick magnets...totally
2006-07-06 15:43:12
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answered by jezzsta 1
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If you are looking for someone to love you, it shouldn't be about your car or your money. If it is, then you are seeking a gold digger. Consider if that is what you really want... someone who wants you for your money and your car, or someone who just wants YOU for who you are.
2006-07-06 15:40:05
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answered by KB 6
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It depends on the quality of girl you want.
2006-07-06 15:40:16
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answered by reality check 3
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