Why do guys think using words like "p*ssy" or "t*ts" are a turn on to women?

Question

I just want to thank everyone for taking the time to respond. I enjoyed reading all of them and really wish I could pick more than one as a winner.

Answer 1

Porn movies and the kinky aspects of sexuality... with the coming of the sexual revolution in the 80s... actually reinforce this pssy tts reinforcement.
Guys just want to turn a girl on sometimes... its control...but can also be completely healthy, wanting to please ones partner.
and dont forget the whole male conditioning, being a dominant and acting "masculine" ... alot of people dont know what masculinity and feminimity are. *depressed*

You need new guy friends that treat you right .

goodluck,
~M

Answer 2

Most of men that I know or knew are not using these words in front of me. They mostly use them in company of their m8s chatting about all the "gr8 jobs" they've done, or new calendars they've seen:)
But I don't mind my partner using word "p*ssy" while we're in the action:) It's good fun, it is a turn on... Two dirty minds in bed and you have heaven there:) And that is important. That's why ppl are saying that your life quality depends on the quality of your life under the sheets:)
By the way, I don't like word t*ts:) It just doesn't sound all that sexy....;)

Answer 3

That's how men see women. I'm just going to be blunt. Objectification or fetishization is innate in masculine sexuality. I know this subjectively... and based on the Huge world of pornography. It's not a global male-dominated pathology that perpetuates pornography. Men need to fantasize about domination, power and flesh.

so they say it for a few reasons.
1) It makes sense to them, and they're oblivious to your sexuality which abhors this treatment.
2) Instead of oblivious, they don't care.
3) Instead of not caring, they do-- and are interested in a woman who can see from his point of view... which may very well be uncompromising. Which may make for a bad "relationship" but that has nothing much to do with GOOD sex.

Answer 4

I don't believe the majority of males think that way...it may,however,be a turn on to the guy as he speaks in such ways.Also,a few guys might be misled to think that females like to hear those type of words because of misinformation or from a response by a female-in which she liked it.
Perhaps,many of the guys you are talking about get this idea from watching porn,adult magazines,and/or from conversations with other males with dirty minds....

Answer 5

well, I"m old as hell and ugly as dirt but I like the word p*ssy, hon.. ****? I dunno bout that one.. (boobs isn't much better.. hell, a boob's an idiot.) I'm married to a 54 guy w/erectile dysfunction (or so he says.... ) and I'd be happy if he got turned on enuff using any goddamned word he pleased! lmao (yeah, yeah I went through this 'feminism stage' when I was a co-ed in the 70's and thought men were 'chauvanistic pigs' and all that **** goin' down because of those 'horrible words degrading me/any female' too, hon.. (go for it..) later

Answer 6

You are using "guys" as too broad of a word. Only immature, objectifying, inconsiderate individual use such verbiage. Then again, maybe they were saying such things to women that were chemically impaired or have no self esteem.

Answer 7

I don't think they think it is a turn, some guys are just idiots and will end up alone or with girl that is a waste of air..

Answer 8

I would love to know...its not a turn on and they sound like pathetic horndogs if ya ask me

Answer 9

I've found the words "dinner" and "dancing" get you a lot farther.

Answer 10

because those type of guys must be the trailer trash type and they think like that do you feel me.