i had sex with my cousin but i did not mean the last time he rape me should i tell my mom about it?

Question

keeping it in the family

Answer 1

No go on Springer.

Answer 2

If your cousin raped you, you should tell you mom. He could rape other girls. You don't want them to go through the same thing you did, do you. If you had sex with your cousin and it wasn't rape, don't tell your mom that he raped you. False rape accusations only make it more difficult for others to believe the real rape victims.

Answer 3

Yes, tell your Mom, let's do your cousin a big favor and put him away for awhile, maybe he'll think twicve about raping young girls, cousins or no. I will say a prayer for your healing, right now. You are a precious gift of God, and you by no means deserve to be treated this way. I send God's legion of mighty saints to protect you and steel your courage to speak out, so he will never do this to any other girl. God bless you, darling girl. Sincerely, UC Steve.

Answer 4

Is there any reason why you should not tell your Mom about it? If you did not tell your Mom that incident, you're just giving your cousin to do it over and over again. Or are you just waiting for you to get pregnant before you tell your Mom? Now is the best time.

Answer 5

well yeah if he raped u then i would definately tell someone cause that is not right and he needs to be punished for it. No one deserves to be raped. I was raped throughout my whole life and now have so much trouble trusting people now i am going through extensive therapy and have trouble even having a lasting relationship with anyone that i am with because of the lack of trust that i feel when it comes to men. So yeah tell someone and take him to court and get him put away cause u need to realise that it is not your fault.

Answer 6

No offense, but if you haven't told your mom already, you really need to! This is an important matter, you have to tell an adult no matter what it takes--your mom, anyone that can help you make sure that it won't happen again---rape is a serious issue, tell your mom immediately!

Answer 7

If you had sex with him willingly that is just gross. Rape is a serious matter no matter what. You should go strait to the police or a counselor. Going to your mom will probably lead to a "hush hush" scenario. Sorry bout that. Good luck.

Answer 8

Yes, tell your mom and anybody who will listen or he may never let you alone. My cousin propositioned me and didn't get anywhere. I told everybody in the familly. He still made some attempts that have finally stopped.

Answer 9

If you are SERIOUS. YES tell your mother. you need to limit contact with this cousin, and if he RAPED you, he needs to face the conseqences. If you then chose to sleep with him, then you NEED counseling, because you are certainly confused about how to have a healthy relationship with this person.

You also need to understand that if you get pregnant by your cousin, your baby is more likely to develop congenital diseases.

Answer 10

Tell your mom at once so she can stop this from happening again. Rape is not sex. It is very degrading. You have done nothing wrong. Please let your mom know as soon as you can. I hope this helps.

Answer 11

If he gets away with it once, he'll do it again, if not to you , he may hurt someone else, you need to tell a parent straight away,
and a checkup with your doctor is definately in order!!! birth control measures should be put in place at once, if there not already, giving consent is one thing, forcing intentions is quite another!!!