My best friend loves older guys. She wants to be wined and dined basically. But most guys want sex in returnShe posts ad's and says she will do whatever but never follows through (Change of heart?). I tell her its not very safe, but she doesn't talk to me after.
She wants nice things, fine eateries, wants to be taken care of, but by OLDER guys 40's + ...she's not even 18 yet either.
My question is, is she a golddigger? Is it wrong of her and what can I do?
2006-07-06 15:16:23 · 7 answers · asked by Marki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Is she a gold digger? Depends on what you think that is....sounds like she has issues with wanting material things. Sounds like she would rather get used then earn things the way most people do.
Is it wrong? Sounds like it is wrong for you. I wouldn't do it either...but that is her choice. She is taking more risks than she knows....and she may be doing much more than you think.
Strippers and prostitutes start out the way your friend is. That is unfortunate but true. There is a good chance that she had a childhood where she was sexually abused. She sees nothing wrong with teasing grown men. She is technically a minor and men that pursue that relationship are pedophiles.
She probably has low self esteem and issues with trust with men. There is more beneath this story than you think.
Can you do anything? You can tell her you can...like you have. You can tell her it is dangerous. Because it is...But you can not change her. She is choosing her path in life and it is a dangerous one indeed. You might want to mention that women like her are the same ones that are taken away in the night and called "runaways" and later turn up as prostitutes at truck stops.
She is running on a short runway thath leads to long run unhappiness. Ask her if a nice dinner and party favors...along with STDs are worth it....if she says yes...then you know you have done your best.
You could always tell her parents but it may not work at this point....I feel bad for her but she is in control of her behavior. Loose women start out this way...and so do old lonely women with no one in life later on.
2006-07-06 15:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, not all of ladies persons are golddiggers. some human beings opt to call them "opportunists", even nonetheless this is an identical factor. sure, an excellent kind of ladies persons will do this so that they might experience financially safeguard and a few of won't even get jobs because of the fact of that. good success to you looking a respecting woman.
2016-12-08 16:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is asking for trouble, especially if she is not 18 yet.
There are laws about the guys that go after young women and she should be more careful.
I hope one of the guys does not get mad and decide to take physical action about what they paid for...
2006-07-06 15:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Golddiiger yes, and a lucky one at that..one of these days one of those old codgers is not going to take no for an answer and you friend may just learn a hard lesson....
2006-07-06 15:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she IS a official goldigger to be sure. Secondly, don't even try to intervene because it shoudln't concern you especially because your supposed friend is FOUL! And you dont need a friens like that because they are nothing but trouble.
2006-07-06 15:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm yes i do think she is a golddigger. all she wants is there money. and if she'z under 18 than whoa.
2006-07-06 15:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mz. Molina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep why n the hell do u want with an 40 yr old thats nasty
2006-07-06 17:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by kool-aid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋